Q: So I have been hanging out with my friend/ neighbor all last year and this summer. We have gotten pretty close. And I like her. I have for awhile now too. But when asked (jokingly) she wishes our relationship to remain platonic. I can handle this. But the thing that sorta makes me a bastard in all this is that This other girl I like, and she likes me. We decided on the summers onset to hold off until she was back at school and see where things would/ could go from there.
The second girl whom I really like a lot has bi-polar disorder and ended her semester early do to this, she had to go in to residential care. I want to put in the time, effort and live out the understanding and patience that is would require. the first girl is really fun and knows more about me than anybody else.
A: If you’re thinking about both girls a ton, it’s hard to believe that you really love one or the other. I know you’re not saying you do but to care for girl #2, you’ll have to have a lot of love. Platonic girl #1 seems to like you when it’s convenient but doesn’t want anything real. I would keep hanging out with her platonically until girl 2 comes back to town and then test it out with girl 2. Don’t commit to anything with either until you’re sure!
Hope that helps.
Let me know!
Love the Madness,
DG
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