Q: Is it ok if I’m dating 2 people at once? It isn’t serious with either one but I’m starting to feel guilty.
A: If you feel guilty, then you shouldn’t be doing it. There’s a reason you feel guilty so pick your fave and go with it!
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Thursday, January 31, 2008
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Q: How many times a day do I call the new girl I’m seeing?
A: Attention is great but too much can turn someone off. Make sure you get a good read on how she’s taking all the calls. If you sense a bit of annoyance, lessen them. If you don’t, then a couple times a day is fine!
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A: Attention is great but too much can turn someone off. Make sure you get a good read on how she’s taking all the calls. If you sense a bit of annoyance, lessen them. If you don’t, then a couple times a day is fine!
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Tuesday, January 29, 2008
I got engaged to my girlfriend! Thanks for all the advice!
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Monday, January 28, 2008
Q: I live in Kansas and have always had trouble meeting adventurous guys here. I moved to a new town and went to the local bike shop/outdoor store to buy a slackline last semester, and a super cute boy sold it to me. We ended up slacklining that night and several times a week for the rest of the warm weather, and our conversations revealed tons of stuff we have in common - like going to preschool together!
The problem is, now that it's cold and we can't slackline I never see him anymore. I tried to express my interest when we were hanging out a lot and I thought for a while that his response was favorable, but either he's not getting the hints or was only interested in a slacking buddy. I'm not usually a particularly forward girl, but I'm tired of being that chick that guys only want to hang out with because I'm into outdoor activities. I don't want to let this one go. What do I do?
A: Ask if he wants to go to the climbing gym. That way you see him again and it’s along the same lines. when you go, you have to be flirty and if he doesn’t pick up on it, say, “Now that slackline season is over, we’ll have to do dinner sometimes or I’ll have withdrawal!” Make it jokey so you can gauge his answer before you become vulnerable. If he’s into it, plan away. If he’s not, then keep it jokey and let it go.
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The problem is, now that it's cold and we can't slackline I never see him anymore. I tried to express my interest when we were hanging out a lot and I thought for a while that his response was favorable, but either he's not getting the hints or was only interested in a slacking buddy. I'm not usually a particularly forward girl, but I'm tired of being that chick that guys only want to hang out with because I'm into outdoor activities. I don't want to let this one go. What do I do?
A: Ask if he wants to go to the climbing gym. That way you see him again and it’s along the same lines. when you go, you have to be flirty and if he doesn’t pick up on it, say, “Now that slackline season is over, we’ll have to do dinner sometimes or I’ll have withdrawal!” Make it jokey so you can gauge his answer before you become vulnerable. If he’s into it, plan away. If he’s not, then keep it jokey and let it go.
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Sunday, January 27, 2008
Q: DG I'm in a bit of a situation. I've been with a girl for about a month now but I need to get out of it. She's a great girl, cool, and one of the more interesting girls I've been with, but I'm just not feeling it anymore. I kinda mentioned the other night that things were "different" and she got very upset. Here's what's holding me back- I live with my brother who happens to be with my girlfriend's sister and I'm friends with her and she's always over my house too. Is it possible to end this without burning any bridges between my gf and her sister?
A: If you’re not into her, you just have to end it so you’re not stringing her along. If you’re honest with her and respect her, then you can salvage the friendship with the sister but I wouldn’t make that your main focus.
Be nice, honest, respectful and after the initial hurt goes away, everyone is better off!
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A: If you’re not into her, you just have to end it so you’re not stringing her along. If you’re honest with her and respect her, then you can salvage the friendship with the sister but I wouldn’t make that your main focus.
Be nice, honest, respectful and after the initial hurt goes away, everyone is better off!
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Saturday, January 26, 2008
Q: Any good ideas on ways to dig your way out of the friend zone with this girl i met who knows i like her, but i just waited to long to make a move?
A: Very tough and technical move! You need to make a joke like, “Too bad we’re already good friends, you would make a good girlfriend.” Then see how she reacts. If it’s not the worst reaction you’ve ever seen, then continue, “We should go on a date and try it out!” Then you really have to make the date. If you don’t do it then and there, you’ll have to start all over with the convo the next time. So make a day and have a good restaurant in mind for a dinner. If she laughs and blows it off, then you let it go.
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A: Very tough and technical move! You need to make a joke like, “Too bad we’re already good friends, you would make a good girlfriend.” Then see how she reacts. If it’s not the worst reaction you’ve ever seen, then continue, “We should go on a date and try it out!” Then you really have to make the date. If you don’t do it then and there, you’ll have to start all over with the convo the next time. So make a day and have a good restaurant in mind for a dinner. If she laughs and blows it off, then you let it go.
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Friday, January 25, 2008
Happy bday Sarah! Your bf says he loves you!
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Thursday, January 24, 2008
Q: On what date can I kiss a girl?
A: 2 or 3. Don’t wait too long or you risk falling into the friendship pool. Even if it’s just a kiss goodnight, get in there!
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A: 2 or 3. Don’t wait too long or you risk falling into the friendship pool. Even if it’s just a kiss goodnight, get in there!
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Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Q: I asked a girl out and she said no. We hung out a few times in groups, then alone, then kissed drunk, then kissed sober.
Anyway, we talked shortly after that and she said her "life was a mess right now". Kind of a weird explanation for the way things happened. We've hung out about twice a week since then, however no kissing. Just cuddling while napping and hugging.
I am a very curious being. I can't tell whether the kissing was an isolated two day incident or if there is more kissing and possibly dating in the future. I'd hate to be thinking that all this hanging out is going to lead to something more than friendship if that really isn't the case. How do I bring up such a conversation without it being an awkward ordeal? I don't mind being friends, but I'd like to be more and she knows that. I've expressed it openly before the kissing and in the conversation afterward. I'd like to just say "Hey, I really like you. I'm wondering how you feel about me," but that's a lot harder than it sounds.
A: What did she say when you told her you wanted more than friends? If she reacted favorably and still kissed you then she may be into the relationship. If she said she just wants to be friends then kissed you then she’s probably just confused and waiting for something to push her one way or the other. (either another good kiss with you or another guy to ask her out).
I don’t want you to have too many “talks” with her or you’ll push her away. Can you keep it casual for just a little longer and maybe try to kiss and see how things go? Hopefully it’ll develop casually and easily. If not, you’ll have to force the convo again!
Let me know how it goes
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Anyway, we talked shortly after that and she said her "life was a mess right now". Kind of a weird explanation for the way things happened. We've hung out about twice a week since then, however no kissing. Just cuddling while napping and hugging.
I am a very curious being. I can't tell whether the kissing was an isolated two day incident or if there is more kissing and possibly dating in the future. I'd hate to be thinking that all this hanging out is going to lead to something more than friendship if that really isn't the case. How do I bring up such a conversation without it being an awkward ordeal? I don't mind being friends, but I'd like to be more and she knows that. I've expressed it openly before the kissing and in the conversation afterward. I'd like to just say "Hey, I really like you. I'm wondering how you feel about me," but that's a lot harder than it sounds.
A: What did she say when you told her you wanted more than friends? If she reacted favorably and still kissed you then she may be into the relationship. If she said she just wants to be friends then kissed you then she’s probably just confused and waiting for something to push her one way or the other. (either another good kiss with you or another guy to ask her out).
I don’t want you to have too many “talks” with her or you’ll push her away. Can you keep it casual for just a little longer and maybe try to kiss and see how things go? Hopefully it’ll develop casually and easily. If not, you’ll have to force the convo again!
Let me know how it goes
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Monday, January 21, 2008
Q: So I have a 2yr old daugther with my ex of 11yrs. We have been split since my daugther was born. A year before she was born he had asked me to marry him. Over the last year Ive been dating and thought I had finally found the prince, whom has done nothing but be WONDERFUL to my daugther and I! Well my ex and his girlfriend, (that is the reason to why we split up cause he cheated) are having thier problems and now hes back to calling me and wanting to fix things between us and see if there is anything there still. Which with him calling it has made me start pushing my new man away slowly. Im lost and not sure what to do. Any advise? UNSURE
A: Toughie!
You could take this opportunity to be friends with your ex but say no to any getting back together. He’s in a time of need and he’s running to safety. Don’t forget, he cheated on you!!!
Try to pretend he didn’t come crawling back and go back to your prince. Hopefully you thinking more about your ex doesn’t say anything about your feelings for the prince.
Hope that helps!
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A: Toughie!
You could take this opportunity to be friends with your ex but say no to any getting back together. He’s in a time of need and he’s running to safety. Don’t forget, he cheated on you!!!
Try to pretend he didn’t come crawling back and go back to your prince. Hopefully you thinking more about your ex doesn’t say anything about your feelings for the prince.
Hope that helps!
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Sunday, January 20, 2008
Q: ive learned something i think..the less i try with girls the more they are interested. anyways i got a random message on myspace from a girl asking if we knew eachother cause i looked familiar. turns out we have all our classes in the same building. after a couple messages back and forth of what we have in common she told me her schedule for classes, i told her mine and my sn. after getting another message saying she doesnt ever get on aim(and a little tipsy from the bar) i gave her my num, say she should hang come and tell her about a concert coming up..i saw she was on the other day, did i blow it? i think it sounded like i came on too strong ..should i tell her i had a few drinks when i wrote it or just forget about it all together? i mean i thought if she told me her classes by day and time she would want to hang out sometime..anyways ill def stay away from messaging when i get back from the bars from now on..ha ..much thanks
A: I don’t think it was so bad. I would even consider IMing her again but don’t be as abrupt. Just be breezy. A casual IM, if you will. “Hey. What’s up? How ya doin? How’s the weather? Etc.” If she bites, then you can see if she wants to meet up sometime.
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A: I don’t think it was so bad. I would even consider IMing her again but don’t be as abrupt. Just be breezy. A casual IM, if you will. “Hey. What’s up? How ya doin? How’s the weather? Etc.” If she bites, then you can see if she wants to meet up sometime.
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Friday, January 18, 2008
Good luck Sidney! Today is your day, and if not, then there’s always tomorrow!
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Thursday, January 17, 2008
Q: "Dan" and I have a few classes together and have been flirting since the beginning of the semester. He calls me occasionally, but we haven't had more than a few official dates. Is it allowed to still go on dates with other guys if I'm still talking to Dan?
A: If you’ve only gone on a few dates and haven’t had any talks then I don’t think you’re exclusive but keep in mind that if you want to go on other dates, Dan is probably not the guy of your dreams!
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A: If you’ve only gone on a few dates and haven’t had any talks then I don’t think you’re exclusive but keep in mind that if you want to go on other dates, Dan is probably not the guy of your dreams!
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Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Q: I got the uglies flowers from this guy. I like him but what if he gets me ugly flowers for the rest of my life?
A: I feel really bad for you. Not really. If ugly flowers are your biggest complaint, you’re in good shape! We should all be so lucky!
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A: I feel really bad for you. Not really. If ugly flowers are your biggest complaint, you’re in good shape! We should all be so lucky!
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Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Q: Is my best friend’s boyfriend off limits?
A: If he’s still her boyfriend then for sure he’s off limits! Don’t even think about it. If it’s an ex from 5 years ago then you can ask her if he’s open territory. She prob won’t care if it wasn’t a significant almost-marriage type thing.
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A: If he’s still her boyfriend then for sure he’s off limits! Don’t even think about it. If it’s an ex from 5 years ago then you can ask her if he’s open territory. She prob won’t care if it wasn’t a significant almost-marriage type thing.
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Monday, January 14, 2008
Q: My best friend of 12 years and I went on a trip over the holidays. While on the trip to alaska her and I started having those more than friends feelings. We talked about it and decided that it was just because of where we were. But since getting back our feelings have only grown. She has a boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and hes a really great guy. We talked and we both want to try a relationship but are affraid it will tear or friendship. If you can think of any helpful advice for either of us it would be much appreciated. Thanks--
A: It’s definitely a risk but if you guys feel the connection, it’s worth it. If it doesn’t work out, the friendship will be jeopardized, no gettin around that, but if it does work out, it’ll be amazing.
I say go for it! We all have enough "friends!"
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A: It’s definitely a risk but if you guys feel the connection, it’s worth it. If it doesn’t work out, the friendship will be jeopardized, no gettin around that, but if it does work out, it’ll be amazing.
I say go for it! We all have enough "friends!"
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Sunday, January 13, 2008
Q: Can I ask a girl on a daytime date or is that lame?
A: I always prefer night time myself. It’s a much better mood for romance! If you’re trying to keep it casual then keep it casual at night instead of day. That’s always been my motto!
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A: I always prefer night time myself. It’s a much better mood for romance! If you’re trying to keep it casual then keep it casual at night instead of day. That’s always been my motto!
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Saturday, January 12, 2008
Congrats on the engagement Leslie!
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Friday, January 11, 2008
Q: If I’m really tall, can I date a guy shorter than me (by 7 inches)?
A: If you like him, then yes but he needs to be comfortable with it too. If you both like each other and he isn’t insecure next to you then go for it. It’s a status symbol!!
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A: If you like him, then yes but he needs to be comfortable with it too. If you both like each other and he isn’t insecure next to you then go for it. It’s a status symbol!!
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Thursday, January 10, 2008
Q: I got a girl red roses for her first bunch of flowers. What do I follow that up with this time?
A: Get her tulips (all one color) or hydrangea.
Love em and hope she appreciates you!
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A: Get her tulips (all one color) or hydrangea.
Love em and hope she appreciates you!
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Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Q: I'm 30 years old, recently divorced, and I'm just starting to get back into dating. Let me first say that my marriage ended very similar to Ross' s 1st marriage on the TV show "Friends"- it turned out that we both had too much in common-women. Ok, all joking aside, it's really difficult to tell girls that you like and who like you that you're divorced, and even more awkward to tell them the reason why I'm divorced. I've been talking to this girl a few times and we really have a lot in common, but I feel like I waited too long to tell her that I'm divorced. How do I break the news and do I fill her in on all of the details as to why I got divorced? What type of reaction should I expect? Thanks for the advice.
A: Unfortunately, divorce is way too common nowadays and it shouldn’t scare anyone off. I can see why the reason part is awkward to talk about. If you’re into the new girl though, and you think it’s longer term than a few dates here and there, then you should tell her. Just be upfront and a little jokey about it. She should be ok and appreciate the honesty and vulnerability.
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A: Unfortunately, divorce is way too common nowadays and it shouldn’t scare anyone off. I can see why the reason part is awkward to talk about. If you’re into the new girl though, and you think it’s longer term than a few dates here and there, then you should tell her. Just be upfront and a little jokey about it. She should be ok and appreciate the honesty and vulnerability.
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Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Q: Met a nice gal a few nights before NYEve in Chicago. I met her at a lounge, talked to her asked to dance... we hit it off. Moreover, we both did not drink anything more than some ginger ale and ice cubes.
The next day she txt messaged me with "I had a great time with you last night, you were a dancing machine" (Flattering)... Moreover, many txt. messages to count after that, we were possibly going to meet up that night, however we did not.
NYEve: we meet up, both kept up to out ginger ale and ice cube regimen, however, we had a great time talking; grew intimate for the rest of the night(maybe somewhere between 2nd base and the shortstop). In the morning (Jan 1st) she has to catch a flight at noon, however, has to go home (parents house) first, 75.00 dollar cab ride. In a nutshell she spent her last few hours in Chica go with me before a flight back to NYCity.
So, now she is in NYCity and I am in Portland, OR. She, wrote a txt. how she had a great time over the past few days, and how it was not a bad way to start 2008. She is a professional (works 12-14 hour days), back to work, and so am I; the only thing is, is that we are 3,000 miles apart. I am not a dummy to believe a cross country relationship would work, but I am so friggin' dumbstruck to think that it might just be possible. I travel to NYCity on the regular (every 6-8 weeks) and plan on moving there in mid 2009. How do I play the Cool Hand Luke move to make her think that something might just work out, out of this? I just don't want to mess this thing up, however, I know that I can and the odds are working much against this .
A: Hi!
You have to get to NYC as soon as possible. You can’t let her forget! Absence is supposed to make the heart grow fonder but too much absence just make the heart forget and move on.
You could even make up a biz trip you have in the city so you don’t seem so quick and desperate!
If her feelings are mutual, you can probably just say you want to see her again and when should you visit. Don’t assume you’re staying with her though. Lean towards getting a hotel so it’s not too presumptuous.
After the first trip is done, you’ll know if it’s worth continuing all the traveling and missing each other.
Please keep me posted on this one! It sounds promising, even with the 3000 miles!
Love the Madness
DG
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The next day she txt messaged me with "I had a great time with you last night, you were a dancing machine" (Flattering)... Moreover, many txt. messages to count after that, we were possibly going to meet up that night, however we did not.
NYEve: we meet up, both kept up to out ginger ale and ice cube regimen, however, we had a great time talking; grew intimate for the rest of the night(maybe somewhere between 2nd base and the shortstop). In the morning (Jan 1st) she has to catch a flight at noon, however, has to go home (parents house) first, 75.00 dollar cab ride. In a nutshell she spent her last few hours in Chica go with me before a flight back to NYCity.
So, now she is in NYCity and I am in Portland, OR. She, wrote a txt. how she had a great time over the past few days, and how it was not a bad way to start 2008. She is a professional (works 12-14 hour days), back to work, and so am I; the only thing is, is that we are 3,000 miles apart. I am not a dummy to believe a cross country relationship would work, but I am so friggin' dumbstruck to think that it might just be possible. I travel to NYCity on the regular (every 6-8 weeks) and plan on moving there in mid 2009. How do I play the Cool Hand Luke move to make her think that something might just work out, out of this? I just don't want to mess this thing up, however, I know that I can and the odds are working much against this .
A: Hi!
You have to get to NYC as soon as possible. You can’t let her forget! Absence is supposed to make the heart grow fonder but too much absence just make the heart forget and move on.
You could even make up a biz trip you have in the city so you don’t seem so quick and desperate!
If her feelings are mutual, you can probably just say you want to see her again and when should you visit. Don’t assume you’re staying with her though. Lean towards getting a hotel so it’s not too presumptuous.
After the first trip is done, you’ll know if it’s worth continuing all the traveling and missing each other.
Please keep me posted on this one! It sounds promising, even with the 3000 miles!
Love the Madness
DG
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Monday, January 7, 2008
Happy Bday Carl!
Love the Madness
DG
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Love the Madness
DG
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Sunday, January 6, 2008
Q:I need new places to meet girls that aren't lame. Bars are about the last place I want to go to meet a girl (it has lost it's appeal since college). I have heard libraries, but that sounds kind of boring. I've also been told to go to dog parks. Eh...kind of sounds cliche too. Any fresh ideas?
A:The gym, the internet, set ups thru friends. All good post college options! Don’t be scared of the online thing. It might even be fun (or depressing) but probably fun.
Love the Madness
DG
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A:The gym, the internet, set ups thru friends. All good post college options! Don’t be scared of the online thing. It might even be fun (or depressing) but probably fun.
Love the Madness
DG
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Saturday, January 5, 2008
Q: I need to find a "moosejaw chick." I live in suburbia and all the girls are not into backpacking and climbing. How do I find a girl of admirable outdoor qualities?
A:You need to find a girl out backpacking or at the climbing gym. Or even at the regular gym. You should try to find a girl doing something active if you want an active girl!
Easier said than done, I know.
Love the Madness
DG
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A:You need to find a girl out backpacking or at the climbing gym. Or even at the regular gym. You should try to find a girl doing something active if you want an active girl!
Easier said than done, I know.
Love the Madness
DG
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Friday, January 4, 2008
Q: So, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years... but the entire time, we have lived an hour and a half away from each other... I live in NY because of him.... I don't want to live here. But I love my boyfriend and he loves his NY job. I don't have many good friends here and considering he works 72 hours a week I am always by myself. I am not someone who likes be alone. He said when I want to move in with him, he will move to where I am, but until then, he is staying where he is... I have tried to get out to find friends but can’t find them at work or at the gym. Never seeing my boyfriend, having no social life and being away from my family are all wearing on me.
Any suggestions on what I should do? Do I have any options or is this what happens when you get older and fall in love...
A: You definitely need friends so it’s a matter of finding them. Does your bf have friends that have girlfriends? Can you go online to some chat room and make friends? Can you meet anyone else at the climbing gym? Do you belong to a workout place you can meet anyone.
If you start going to the same place at the same time, you become friends with people who have the same habit. So if you drink coffee at 8 every morning, you’ll make friends with the other coffee drinkers who always go at 8. It’ll take some repetition but it works!
If you find friends in the area, you’re bound to be happier. Then you can stay there and have a life with him.
Do you not want to move in with him? It sounded good until the ultimatum suggestion below!
You really need your own interests, friends and life in NY if he’s always going to work 72 hours/ wk. Sucks but you need that to make yourself happy!
Hope that helps a little.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Any suggestions on what I should do? Do I have any options or is this what happens when you get older and fall in love...
A: You definitely need friends so it’s a matter of finding them. Does your bf have friends that have girlfriends? Can you go online to some chat room and make friends? Can you meet anyone else at the climbing gym? Do you belong to a workout place you can meet anyone.
If you start going to the same place at the same time, you become friends with people who have the same habit. So if you drink coffee at 8 every morning, you’ll make friends with the other coffee drinkers who always go at 8. It’ll take some repetition but it works!
If you find friends in the area, you’re bound to be happier. Then you can stay there and have a life with him.
Do you not want to move in with him? It sounded good until the ultimatum suggestion below!
You really need your own interests, friends and life in NY if he’s always going to work 72 hours/ wk. Sucks but you need that to make yourself happy!
Hope that helps a little.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, January 3, 2008
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
My girlfriend has now successfully blown me off for four consecutive nights including: first night dinner, next just a hang out session, last night movies, and tonight a NYE party. Each night she has had other plans with her best friend. Should I be concerned that I am coming second in importance to her behind her best friend. Love you and all you at MJ do.
A: Yes, you should be concerned. Especially NYE – most people want to be with a boyfriend! Have you asked her about it? Do you believe her excuses or does it seem more that she’s sick of you (sorry for the harsh words). Maybe she just needs a little space. If you can’t stand the idea of a talk, maybe just back up a bit and see how she takes it. Don’t bit your nose off to spite your face, but just give her a little space.
Let me know what you think and how this all unfolds.
Love the Madness,
DG
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My girlfriend has now successfully blown me off for four consecutive nights including: first night dinner, next just a hang out session, last night movies, and tonight a NYE party. Each night she has had other plans with her best friend. Should I be concerned that I am coming second in importance to her behind her best friend. Love you and all you at MJ do.
A: Yes, you should be concerned. Especially NYE – most people want to be with a boyfriend! Have you asked her about it? Do you believe her excuses or does it seem more that she’s sick of you (sorry for the harsh words). Maybe she just needs a little space. If you can’t stand the idea of a talk, maybe just back up a bit and see how she takes it. Don’t bit your nose off to spite your face, but just give her a little space.
Let me know what you think and how this all unfolds.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, January 2, 2008
Q: I slept with my ex on new years. Do I call her now?
A: Definitely call her but you should go in knowing whether you want to get back together or not. That way you can lead the witness.
Let me know what happens!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Definitely call her but you should go in knowing whether you want to get back together or not. That way you can lead the witness.
Let me know what happens!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, January 1, 2008
Happy New Year's
Love the Madness,
DG
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Love the Madness,
DG
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