Q: I asked a girl out and she said no. We hung out a few times in groups, then alone, then kissed drunk, then kissed sober.
Anyway, we talked shortly after that and she said her "life was a mess right now". Kind of a weird explanation for the way things happened. We've hung out about twice a week since then, however no kissing. Just cuddling while napping and hugging.
I am a very curious being. I can't tell whether the kissing was an isolated two day incident or if there is more kissing and possibly dating in the future. I'd hate to be thinking that all this hanging out is going to lead to something more than friendship if that really isn't the case. How do I bring up such a conversation without it being an awkward ordeal? I don't mind being friends, but I'd like to be more and she knows that. I've expressed it openly before the kissing and in the conversation afterward. I'd like to just say "Hey, I really like you. I'm wondering how you feel about me," but that's a lot harder than it sounds.
A: What did she say when you told her you wanted more than friends? If she reacted favorably and still kissed you then she may be into the relationship. If she said she just wants to be friends then kissed you then she’s probably just confused and waiting for something to push her one way or the other. (either another good kiss with you or another guy to ask her out).
I don’t want you to have too many “talks” with her or you’ll push her away. Can you keep it casual for just a little longer and maybe try to kiss and see how things go? Hopefully it’ll develop casually and easily. If not, you’ll have to force the convo again!
Let me know how it goes
Love the Madness
DG
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