Q: Dear DG,
Ok. so I went out with this hot girl last week and she said to call and I did and she didn’t call back. Are girls that mean?
A: Sorry to say it but yes, we can be that mean at times. So sad. Guys can be that mean too though! A million things could have happened. She could have met someone else between now and then. She could just be super busy. Or she probably just had time to think about it and decided you weren’t the perfect match.
Sorry!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, September 30, 2007
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Q: Dear DG,
Just wondering....is 18 too young to be in love with someone? If he loves you back? Most people I know my age aren't really even close to being serious about someone....if their dating is just casual or whatever. Does my age matter that much? I'm not gonna rush into something or whatever but how can I help how old I am? Everyone I talk to makes it sound like I'm still to young to know for sure about someone. But what if I think I do?
A: You can definitely love someone at 18. And he can love you back! You shouldn’t run off and get married, but you can date and be in love. You guys are just lucky!
Love the Madness,
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Just wondering....is 18 too young to be in love with someone? If he loves you back? Most people I know my age aren't really even close to being serious about someone....if their dating is just casual or whatever. Does my age matter that much? I'm not gonna rush into something or whatever but how can I help how old I am? Everyone I talk to makes it sound like I'm still to young to know for sure about someone. But what if I think I do?
A: You can definitely love someone at 18. And he can love you back! You shouldn’t run off and get married, but you can date and be in love. You guys are just lucky!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, September 28, 2007
Q: Dear DG,
So I've been hangin out with this awesome girl, and we have hung out like 6 or 7 times talking for 2-3 hours everytime, so we get along great. Anyways I thought she should know how I felt so I told her last night, and she said thanks for tellin me i'll get back to you right....then tonight we talked and she said she loves hangin out with me but can't say if she likes me or not...do i still hang out with her and spend time with her or was that a nice way of sayin thanks but no thanks?
A: She’s not into you like that. She’s cool with being friends. If you are too, then still hang out but if you just want the date/ gf thing, then move on.
Don’t kill the messenger.
Love the Madness,
DG
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So I've been hangin out with this awesome girl, and we have hung out like 6 or 7 times talking for 2-3 hours everytime, so we get along great. Anyways I thought she should know how I felt so I told her last night, and she said thanks for tellin me i'll get back to you right....then tonight we talked and she said she loves hangin out with me but can't say if she likes me or not...do i still hang out with her and spend time with her or was that a nice way of sayin thanks but no thanks?
A: She’s not into you like that. She’s cool with being friends. If you are too, then still hang out but if you just want the date/ gf thing, then move on.
Don’t kill the messenger.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, September 27, 2007
Q: Lets get serious. This problem has to happen a lot. I know I am not the only weak male out there. I have been dating my wonderful girlfriend for a year and eight months. We took things slow, but have become rather serious the last eight months and it is make or break time. We either break up with her or we are in it for the long run. She is a wonderful girl, but I am not as attracted to her (not physically) as I used to be. I want out, but she wants marriage. I don't have the courage to break her heart. I don't want to hurt such a wonderful girl.
A: Definitely break up and do it as soon as possible. The worst thing you can do is waste her time and string her along. As long as you’re respectful and honest, she’ll be ok in the long run and she’ll like you more for it. you’ll definitely hurt her a little now but you’ll both be better off for it.
Don’t wait! I know it’s easier said than done, but I’m seeing it from the girl’s perspective and that’s what I would want.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Definitely break up and do it as soon as possible. The worst thing you can do is waste her time and string her along. As long as you’re respectful and honest, she’ll be ok in the long run and she’ll like you more for it. you’ll definitely hurt her a little now but you’ll both be better off for it.
Don’t wait! I know it’s easier said than done, but I’m seeing it from the girl’s perspective and that’s what I would want.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Q: I have been with the same woman for 3 years now and we have an eleven month old daughter. We've been back and forth now for at least a year. we went to a conference for her and I saw a picture of a guy smiling and under him the caption read something like "this is me smiling at you from my pillow." she informed me that she has been talking to this guy for a long time, while he was with his, and she was with me. Two days before, she had apparently gone on a date with this guy. Her idea was to have a great weekend then tell me on the way home that she was seeing someone else. She's flipped out on me for asking about this guy, she screams any information I ask for about him to me, and now says she wants me to mention no more about him. I've said about 6 things to just question her about him. And the picture text? Love the madness / Hate the B.S.
A: So she cheated on you/ went on a date with someone else and you’re the one feeling bad? That’s wrong. You have every right to question her and talk about it and discuss it at length.
Sounds like she’s ready to move on and she’s not giving you the respect you deserve.
You need a real adult conversation with her and if she won’t have it then you should consider taking a break until you/ she sorts things out in her head.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: So she cheated on you/ went on a date with someone else and you’re the one feeling bad? That’s wrong. You have every right to question her and talk about it and discuss it at length.
Sounds like she’s ready to move on and she’s not giving you the respect you deserve.
You need a real adult conversation with her and if she won’t have it then you should consider taking a break until you/ she sorts things out in her head.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Q: Hey, I was wondering if you've been friends with somebody for a a few weeks, if there's a not so out there way to ask them out on a date. Me and this girl have hung out a few times in the last 2 weeks just doing simple but fun stuff, but its never been like a "real" date and now i dont know if she just likes me as a friend or what because we have good times together but shes not overly flirty but maybe shes scared of breaking the friend barrier too? sooooooo, i want a smooth way to see or ask her if shed like to go on a real dinner/movie date without losing our friendship if she didnt feel that way.. thanks a lot!
..and when i did is asking her whatever way on aim or fb too lame if im not trying to be all out there about it
A: You should joke about it before you take the plunge. That way you can check her reaction before you become too vulnerable. So say, “Too bad we’re such good friends; you’d make a great girlfriend.” See what she says. If it’s something encouraging, then add, “Should we try it? Like a real live date?” If she blows it off, you end it after the first line and pretend you were joking.
For the aim or fb, you won’t be able to read her reaction as well and you’ll give her time to formulate an answer but if you’re to shy for the face to face, you can try it on email.
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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..and when i did is asking her whatever way on aim or fb too lame if im not trying to be all out there about it
A: You should joke about it before you take the plunge. That way you can check her reaction before you become too vulnerable. So say, “Too bad we’re such good friends; you’d make a great girlfriend.” See what she says. If it’s something encouraging, then add, “Should we try it? Like a real live date?” If she blows it off, you end it after the first line and pretend you were joking.
For the aim or fb, you won’t be able to read her reaction as well and you’ll give her time to formulate an answer but if you’re to shy for the face to face, you can try it on email.
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, September 24, 2007
Q: Dear dg,
I'm talking to this girl who is really awesome, but she is so career oriented that she blows off dates and trips to work. How can I get her to take a much needed vacation and forget about work?
A: A girl after my own heart! Sorry to say it, but I’m one of those workaholics. You should take vacations that allow her to work while she’s there. And go on dinner dates but then if she wants to turn her computer on during the DVD, let her. On the same note, she should definitely be able to hang without working at least a couple nights a week, and some weekends!
Does that help.
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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I'm talking to this girl who is really awesome, but she is so career oriented that she blows off dates and trips to work. How can I get her to take a much needed vacation and forget about work?
A: A girl after my own heart! Sorry to say it, but I’m one of those workaholics. You should take vacations that allow her to work while she’s there. And go on dinner dates but then if she wants to turn her computer on during the DVD, let her. On the same note, she should definitely be able to hang without working at least a couple nights a week, and some weekends!
Does that help.
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, September 23, 2007
Q: Would flirting with someone else be cheating?
A: Flirting with intention is cheating. If you want to get somewhere, then it’s bad. If you think about that person while you’re with your significant other, then it’s bad.
If it’s harmless and gets you thru the workday, then you’re probably ok!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Flirting with intention is cheating. If you want to get somewhere, then it’s bad. If you think about that person while you’re with your significant other, then it’s bad.
If it’s harmless and gets you thru the workday, then you’re probably ok!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, September 22, 2007
Q: Ok, went on a date with a girl last Saturday. I kept it short, though admittedly shorter than I had intended (about 1 hour, just did dinner). Everything went great and had a good time. Wasn't gonna call on Sunday, but a friend said she made note to him that it was so short and I felt bad and wanted to explain why. I called that afternoon and left a message. Never heard back from her, so I texted her many hours later, that night. She said she forgot to call me back but everything was kosher. I called her b/c I hate texting so much and told her that there was a concert this weekend that I wanted to go to and I wanted her to come too. She said she wasn't sure and is "supposed" to call me back and let me know if she can go. I haven't heard back from her, but I guess she still has until Saturday to let me know. Though I have a gut feeling I'm not gonna hear from her (mostly due to the fact that I've been burned before). It was odd, because it felt like everything was going really well on the date and that there was some mutual interest there. Anyway, I've also heard that she's not wanting any big commitment thing right now, which is actually great because I don't either, but I have no idea how to handle a situation like that. She's also 6 years younger than me, which was really hard at first, but I do like the girl and want to see her again.
Sorry for the rambling, I'm fairly clueless in these situations.
A: Sounds like she’s not that into it. If you’re excited about a guy, you usually don’t forget to call back. Sucks but if she doesn’t call by tonight, I’d write it off.
Don’t kill the messenger.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sorry for the rambling, I'm fairly clueless in these situations.
A: Sounds like she’s not that into it. If you’re excited about a guy, you usually don’t forget to call back. Sucks but if she doesn’t call by tonight, I’d write it off.
Don’t kill the messenger.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, September 21, 2007
Q: Hey DG,
I went out with my friend's group of friends three times the last few weeks and I was kinda interested in one of them. Last time the group went out, we sat on opposite ends of the table and yelling across 8 people really wasn't my idea of fun. Now I kinda miss hanging out with her and I want to ask her out. Would it be creepy if I send a message via facebook along the lines of "congrats on the new job and car...blah blah blah...we should hang out sometime." or should I wait some undetermined period of time until I see her again?
A: Not creepy at all! Send away. If there was a click between you 2, she’s probably waiting for it.
The worst that can happen is she won’t respond and then you never have to see her again!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I went out with my friend's group of friends three times the last few weeks and I was kinda interested in one of them. Last time the group went out, we sat on opposite ends of the table and yelling across 8 people really wasn't my idea of fun. Now I kinda miss hanging out with her and I want to ask her out. Would it be creepy if I send a message via facebook along the lines of "congrats on the new job and car...blah blah blah...we should hang out sometime." or should I wait some undetermined period of time until I see her again?
A: Not creepy at all! Send away. If there was a click between you 2, she’s probably waiting for it.
The worst that can happen is she won’t respond and then you never have to see her again!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, September 20, 2007
Q: So I met this amazing girl in one of my classes the other day, athletic, beautiful, loves climbing, camping, she's down to earth, all around amazing person. On paper, everything i could ever want in a girl. One of those girls that you can't pass up, cause you might never meet another one so perfect. Wierd thing is, I don't find myself crushing on her, what the hell is wrong with me and what should I do?
A: If the chemistry isn’t there, then it’s not there. Nothing you can force or pretend to do. It’s just not there.
She may have it all on paper, but sometimes, that’s just not enough!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: If the chemistry isn’t there, then it’s not there. Nothing you can force or pretend to do. It’s just not there.
She may have it all on paper, but sometimes, that’s just not enough!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Q: I've known this guy forever, and we dated a really long time ago. Is it weird to date someone more than once? Even after a long period of being broken up?
A: Not at all. Especially if it was just bad timing the first time around. If there were bigger issues and those aren’t changing then you’re probably going back in for more pain.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Not at all. Especially if it was just bad timing the first time around. If there were bigger issues and those aren’t changing then you’re probably going back in for more pain.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Q: I’m about to go on a first date. Do I shake hands, hug, or nothing?
A: I like the ole half hug. Friendly, warm, yet not too invasive.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: I like the ole half hug. Friendly, warm, yet not too invasive.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, September 17, 2007
Q: Is it ok to be attracted to my best friend’s girlfriend?
A: It’s normal but you can’t act on it. You should keep those feelings at bay. Try to get a crush on someone else to take this one away. It’s totally normal, but it’s just not practical! If you can replace the habit of her with someone else, it’ll be easier.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: It’s normal but you can’t act on it. You should keep those feelings at bay. Try to get a crush on someone else to take this one away. It’s totally normal, but it’s just not practical! If you can replace the habit of her with someone else, it’ll be easier.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, September 16, 2007
Happy Easter. Just kidding.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, September 14, 2007
Q: I’m the worst boyfriend. I forgot my 1 year anniversary. What do I do now?
A: You have to make it up to her. Make her queen for a day. Get her flowers, massage her feet/back, clean the dishes after dinner, send her a super sweet email/text, etc.
You have to be genuine and she’ll for sure forgive you! It’ll be a joke before you know it.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: You have to make it up to her. Make her queen for a day. Get her flowers, massage her feet/back, clean the dishes after dinner, send her a super sweet email/text, etc.
You have to be genuine and she’ll for sure forgive you! It’ll be a joke before you know it.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, September 13, 2007
Q: This guy wants to go on a date and pick me up but I don’t want him to meet my 1 year old kid. Can we meet there?
A: For sure you can meet there. I don’t have a kid and I like to meet on a first date. No prob!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: For sure you can meet there. I don’t have a kid and I like to meet on a first date. No prob!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Q: I finally asked out a girl i had a crush on. She said yes and we went out to lunch, everything was going great, then in the middle of it she casually mentioned she has a boyfriend. This caught me completely off guard and it took me about 10 minutes to regroup in my head. Whats her deal? Why would she go out with me if she has a bf? Is she just too nice and didn't want to hurt my feelings? My head hurts....Help
A: Totally weird! She must have thought you were going as friends but it’s still so weird. I’d say you’re done with her. Go take some advil and call it a day. She sucks.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Totally weird! She must have thought you were going as friends but it’s still so weird. I’d say you’re done with her. Go take some advil and call it a day. She sucks.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Shout out to Joe S.
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Monday, September 10, 2007
Q: This whole ordeal started last monday when I found out that homecoming for her school was on the 22nd of september..so I was like JUNK! I have to ask her like..now......so I came up with this: she would come home from work that night (friday) at about 8.30pm...I was going to surprise her by being at her house when she got home..I was then going to take her out to her pool where I had put pool noodles that I had bent in to letters spelling HOMECOMING? .....and there was going to be roses on the diving board...so I am really exited...BUT THEN...I get a call from her mum who calls to tell me that my girlfriend plans to go to her friends house to spend the night right after work..so I ask her if she can try to convince her to come home for like 2 minutes so I can get her to say yes.....well..I get a call from my girlfriend to tell me that things between us arent really working....so I told her that we would talk about this later (i thought at the time that the whole pool and homecoming thing would hopefully change things and make them work)...at about 6pm I call and ask her mum to see if she was coming home for a couple of minutes, she says no shes still going straight to her friends house.....I ask her if she said anything else and her mum told her that she said she had broken up with me... I talked to her earlier tonight and told her everything I had done and why I wanted to see her friday....I was kinda going for the sympathy result ..no success .. yet ... she says we are not working because :1. we live too far away from each other...2. her parents wont let her do anything on weeknights (sun-thr)...3.she works fri nights and sat (almost all day) whats your take??
A: Sounds like she’s not that into it. She’s making a lot of excuses and you keep coming up with solutions, but she doesn’t want any solutions. She’s just trying to make you say ok to the idea of a breakup.
Having said all that, if you still love her, you should do just what you’re doing. Fight for it. Fight until you’re 100% convinced that she’s saying no. If you don’t fight, she’ll just know her decision to break up was the right one.
Does that help?
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Sounds like she’s not that into it. She’s making a lot of excuses and you keep coming up with solutions, but she doesn’t want any solutions. She’s just trying to make you say ok to the idea of a breakup.
Having said all that, if you still love her, you should do just what you’re doing. Fight for it. Fight until you’re 100% convinced that she’s saying no. If you don’t fight, she’ll just know her decision to break up was the right one.
Does that help?
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, September 9, 2007
September 9, 2007
Q: Okay so i am a sophmore in college and I am seeing this boy and we have hooked up a couple time but nothing major. Like all we do is make out but he wont touch my boobs and I dont understand what that means.. He really just wont touch them and I am not a small chested girl... so what does this mean???? Thanks
A: Don’t worry about it. He’s just respecting you and doesn’t want you to think that’s all he wants. Take it as a compliment! Give him time and I’m sure he’ll come around. Really, don’t be offended!
I know that’s not the best answer but it’s the truth! I’ve heard it from the horse’s mouth!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Q: Okay so i am a sophmore in college and I am seeing this boy and we have hooked up a couple time but nothing major. Like all we do is make out but he wont touch my boobs and I dont understand what that means.. He really just wont touch them and I am not a small chested girl... so what does this mean???? Thanks
A: Don’t worry about it. He’s just respecting you and doesn’t want you to think that’s all he wants. Take it as a compliment! Give him time and I’m sure he’ll come around. Really, don’t be offended!
I know that’s not the best answer but it’s the truth! I’ve heard it from the horse’s mouth!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, September 8, 2007
Q: Hey!
I usually dont ask for advise but thursday night i bumped into this girl whos totally my type and hard to find so i dont wanna mess anything up. shes cute, edgy, and best of all likes outdoor stuff, esp snowboarding. we started talking about things and how weve started running alot, and i said we should jog sometime together. she said yea and i think she was excited and i couldnt get her number right so she finally put it in my phone for me..it was loud where we were at. so i mean, would running be considered a date or just running to a girl? also weve been like acquentence friends , used to have some classes together, seen eachother at a couple parties, say hey but never hung out that sorta thing.i thought if it went well i would ask her to dinner? any more thoughts or advise let me know
Thanks!
A: Sounds like she’s into you. For sure ask her to dinner. She’s probably just waiting for you to finally do it! So, go run with her and after say something like, “Next time we hang out, we should do it in nicer clothes and maybe not so sweaty (at least not right off the bat!).” Don’t really say that () part! Then when she agrees, you have to close the deal. Name a day and get the confirm. Otherwise you’ll just keep wondering when to call/ email, etc to ask her yet again!
Always be closing.
Love the Madness,
DG
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I usually dont ask for advise but thursday night i bumped into this girl whos totally my type and hard to find so i dont wanna mess anything up. shes cute, edgy, and best of all likes outdoor stuff, esp snowboarding. we started talking about things and how weve started running alot, and i said we should jog sometime together. she said yea and i think she was excited and i couldnt get her number right so she finally put it in my phone for me..it was loud where we were at. so i mean, would running be considered a date or just running to a girl? also weve been like acquentence friends , used to have some classes together, seen eachother at a couple parties, say hey but never hung out that sorta thing.i thought if it went well i would ask her to dinner? any more thoughts or advise let me know
Thanks!
A: Sounds like she’s into you. For sure ask her to dinner. She’s probably just waiting for you to finally do it! So, go run with her and after say something like, “Next time we hang out, we should do it in nicer clothes and maybe not so sweaty (at least not right off the bat!).” Don’t really say that () part! Then when she agrees, you have to close the deal. Name a day and get the confirm. Otherwise you’ll just keep wondering when to call/ email, etc to ask her yet again!
Always be closing.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, September 7, 2007
Q: DG: What if my girlfriend does not like to camp? She loves about everything else though.
A: If she likes about everything else, you’ve got a winner and you should leave it be! If you’re not happy with that answer, then you have to find out what she doesn’t like about camping and alleviate those problems.
So if she hates getting cold at night, bring handwarmers and a good sleeping bag and lots of cuddling. If she hates the hard ground, get a thick thermarest pad. If she thinks it’s boring, you’ll have to provide plenty of fun and entertainment!
Ask her for the deets and let’s problem solve!
ove the Madness,
DG
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A: If she likes about everything else, you’ve got a winner and you should leave it be! If you’re not happy with that answer, then you have to find out what she doesn’t like about camping and alleviate those problems.
So if she hates getting cold at night, bring handwarmers and a good sleeping bag and lots of cuddling. If she hates the hard ground, get a thick thermarest pad. If she thinks it’s boring, you’ll have to provide plenty of fun and entertainment!
Ask her for the deets and let’s problem solve!
ove the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, September 6, 2007
Q: What size ziplock can I bring on a plane for my liquids?
A: Funny you should ask! 1 quart.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Funny you should ask! 1 quart.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Q: Can I wear a baseball hat to dinner with a girl?
A: If it’s a first date, I wouldn’t but after that, as long as the restaurant isn’t fancy, I think you’re ok.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: If it’s a first date, I wouldn’t but after that, as long as the restaurant isn’t fancy, I think you’re ok.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Q: I don’t drink but he suggested going for drinks on our first date. Can I just get a coke?
A: Yes, you can get a coke – or coffee – or anything else you feel like getting. If it’s not a match because he drinks and you don’t, then it’s not meant to be.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Yes, you can get a coke – or coffee – or anything else you feel like getting. If it’s not a match because he drinks and you don’t, then it’s not meant to be.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, September 3, 2007
Happy Labor Day to Pickler. It’s his favorite holiday so I thought I’d honor him here.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, September 2, 2007
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
HELP! I was a moron the other night! There is a girl at work who thinks I'm cute. A couple of nights ago she made me promise her that I would go to a party that she was going to be at. I meant to look up her name, as I couldn't remember it. Well, I forgot. I hoped that I could figure it out at the party, but she busted me when I couldn't type her name in my phone! Let's just say that she was mad at me. But, she did come over to my place to "visit" for the next nine hours. What should I do to make it up to her?
A: Flowers for sure! Either a bunch of tulips – all one color. Or purple/blue hydrangea. Or any flowers really.
She’ll be putty!
HELP! I was a moron the other night! There is a girl at work who thinks I'm cute. A couple of nights ago she made me promise her that I would go to a party that she was going to be at. I meant to look up her name, as I couldn't remember it. Well, I forgot. I hoped that I could figure it out at the party, but she busted me when I couldn't type her name in my phone! Let's just say that she was mad at me. But, she did come over to my place to "visit" for the next nine hours. What should I do to make it up to her?
A: Flowers for sure! Either a bunch of tulips – all one color. Or purple/blue hydrangea. Or any flowers really.
She’ll be putty!
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, September 1, 2007
Q: Ok there is this guy I always see on campus, but I never talk to him. I'm sure he's never noticed my presence either, since he is usually on the other side of the street jammin' out to his ipod when i see him. I was able to gather enough info about him and facebook him, obviously. Just from seeing hi around, and stalking him on facebook i think we would work out realllly well together, and I'm really picky. i would really like to have some less creepy contact but i don't know how to go about it. Do I send him a facebook message or not? And if i do, what does it say?
just as a disclaimer: I am not a creeper, just a bored college student who will do anything to not write another paper or read boring essays and then analyze them.
A: You can for sure face book him!
Tell him just what you told me. You’re not the stalker type at all but you’ve seen him around campus and then came across him online so you’re takin a chance and saying hi!
Please email back and let me know how it goes!! I can’t wait for his response!
Love the Madness,
DG
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just as a disclaimer: I am not a creeper, just a bored college student who will do anything to not write another paper or read boring essays and then analyze them.
A: You can for sure face book him!
Tell him just what you told me. You’re not the stalker type at all but you’ve seen him around campus and then came across him online so you’re takin a chance and saying hi!
Please email back and let me know how it goes!! I can’t wait for his response!
Love the Madness,
DG
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