Q: I have a crush on my boss. I think he likes me too. Can I act on it? Please?!
A: NO! unless you don’t like your job, then enjoy but you’ll probably end up quitting or getting fired if/when things don’t work out.
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Saturday, May 31, 2008
Friday, May 30, 2008
Q: So my girlfriend of a few months is leaving for South Africa for 5 months. We decided to give it a shot knowing I won't be able to afford a $3000 ticket to visit her! But I want to get her something before she goes, any ideas? Is it cheesy for a guy to give a framed picture? Is a digital camera too much after only a few months? Thanks!
A: You can definitely do the pic frame. If you feel strongly about each other, you can do the camera. If you think it may be too much then it probably is…. Great idea for a trip though. Could do a playlist for her iPod, flowers, trinketty jewelry, sunglasses (make sure they’re returnable), cute flip flops (see Moosejaw.com!), massage certificate from you.
Hope that helps,
LTM,
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A: You can definitely do the pic frame. If you feel strongly about each other, you can do the camera. If you think it may be too much then it probably is…. Great idea for a trip though. Could do a playlist for her iPod, flowers, trinketty jewelry, sunglasses (make sure they’re returnable), cute flip flops (see Moosejaw.com!), massage certificate from you.
Hope that helps,
LTM,
DG
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Thursday, May 29, 2008
Q: I call my boyfriend honey and he hates it. do I have to stop?
A: If he really hates it and it drives him crazy / annoys him, then yes, stop. If he’s just playing around, then you can play around too and keep calling him that.
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A: If he really hates it and it drives him crazy / annoys him, then yes, stop. If he’s just playing around, then you can play around too and keep calling him that.
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Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Q: Hey- My boyfriend is moving away and I really want to give him something really nice. Not necessarily bought but from the heart... what should I get/make for him?
A: Picture frame
Pic album
iTunes playlist mix
cook his favorite meal
give him a book of coupons for a massage by you, a spontaneous road trip to visit him, etc.
Love letter
Hope those help!
Let me know.
DG
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A: Picture frame
Pic album
iTunes playlist mix
cook his favorite meal
give him a book of coupons for a massage by you, a spontaneous road trip to visit him, etc.
Love letter
Hope those help!
Let me know.
DG
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Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Q: Can I fb a girl for a date if I’ve never met her?
A: If she accepts you as a friend, then for sure!!
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A: If she accepts you as a friend, then for sure!!
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Monday, May 26, 2008
Happy Memorial
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Friday, May 23, 2008
Q: What’s the best flower kind to get a guy? He likes flowers, I just don’t know what kind….
A: You could do sunflowers or hydrangea. Neither is overly feminine.
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A: You could do sunflowers or hydrangea. Neither is overly feminine.
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Thursday, May 22, 2008
Happy 1st anniversary Jo and Kent
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Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Q: What should I do here? There is this girl that I'm crazy about and we're good friends. The thing is she kinda likes this other guy, but I think she flirts a lot with me too? HELP!!!!!
A: Is the other guy a friend of yours? Is it her boyfriend? If yes, you may be outta luck! If not, then you’ve got a chance but you need to get some confidence and make a move. If you’re worried about being friends in the future, you can play it slower and make a joke before making any moves. Give her the ole, “We would make a good couple. Too bad you like ___ or I’d make a move.” See how she reacts and if it’s favorable, move in.
If you don’t care about being friends later, just make a move. Ask her out, kiss her, give her a massage, or any combo thereof. Just be prepared for the worst JIC.
I’m rootin for you on this one.
LMK how it goes!!
LTM,
DG
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A: Is the other guy a friend of yours? Is it her boyfriend? If yes, you may be outta luck! If not, then you’ve got a chance but you need to get some confidence and make a move. If you’re worried about being friends in the future, you can play it slower and make a joke before making any moves. Give her the ole, “We would make a good couple. Too bad you like ___ or I’d make a move.” See how she reacts and if it’s favorable, move in.
If you don’t care about being friends later, just make a move. Ask her out, kiss her, give her a massage, or any combo thereof. Just be prepared for the worst JIC.
I’m rootin for you on this one.
LMK how it goes!!
LTM,
DG
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Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Q: I have known this girl for a long time but we have never have hung out that much. She invited me to her bday party and when I was leaving I told her we should catch a movie sometime and she said she would love to. How do I know if she thinks seeing the movie with me is more than just a friend thing and how would I let her know that I want it to be more than a friend thing without being overly into it so it gets awkward bc were already friends? Thanks!
A: You have to make it date like. Pick her up, pay for everything, you can go to dinner too and make sure it’s got some atmosphere. Walk her to her door at the end too.
That should set the tone and if she doesn’t pick up on it, then she probably doesn’t like the idea of it….
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A: You have to make it date like. Pick her up, pay for everything, you can go to dinner too and make sure it’s got some atmosphere. Walk her to her door at the end too.
That should set the tone and if she doesn’t pick up on it, then she probably doesn’t like the idea of it….
LTM,
DG
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Monday, May 19, 2008
Q: What if I have a mad crush on a guy at work?
A: Do whatever you can to not act on it. It'll never work out and it's now worth all the awkwardness you'll have at work. Having said that, if you really think he's the one and perfect and it's more than just a little crush, you can start flirting and see where it goes. Just be careful with the whole job thing.
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A: Do whatever you can to not act on it. It'll never work out and it's now worth all the awkwardness you'll have at work. Having said that, if you really think he's the one and perfect and it's more than just a little crush, you can start flirting and see where it goes. Just be careful with the whole job thing.
LTM,
DG
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Sunday, May 18, 2008
Q: If I texted the wrong person for a dinner date, do I now text again and say sorri I texted the wrong person?
A: If it’s someone that won’t know your number, just let it go unless they text back asking who you are. If they will know your number, then yeah, text and say Oops.
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A: If it’s someone that won’t know your number, just let it go unless they text back asking who you are. If they will know your number, then yeah, text and say Oops.
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Saturday, May 17, 2008
Q: Why the hell are girls psychotic? You say you want one thing then go for the complete opposite. Everything is a friggin game. And god forbid you make a decision. What gives?
A: You’re right. we are psychotic and I’d like to blame it all on hormones, but y’all are psychotic too! Everyone plays games, even if it’s by mistake and we don’t mean to. And yes, we say one thing and mean another and want you to know what we mean.
It sucks for you guys trying to figure us all out. Sorry for all women!
LTM,
DG
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A: You’re right. we are psychotic and I’d like to blame it all on hormones, but y’all are psychotic too! Everyone plays games, even if it’s by mistake and we don’t mean to. And yes, we say one thing and mean another and want you to know what we mean.
It sucks for you guys trying to figure us all out. Sorry for all women!
LTM,
DG
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Friday, May 16, 2008
Q: Hey DG I really need your advice,
I am falling for my guy friend and I really don't know what to do. He and I are part of a group of 8, 4 guys and 4 girls and we are all platonic friends. In December he confessed to me that he was falling for another member of our group and (at the time I had no romantic interests in him) I coached him through it. He eventaully asked her out and she rejected him. Now he is getting over her and I have been helping with his process... but somewhere along the line I definately fell in love. I really want to tell him, but I don''t want to "take advantage" of his emotional state and above all I don't want to lose his friendship. What should I do?
A: You can either go the joke route so you don’t risk anything or you make a move and risk losing a friend.
If you go the joke route, say, “Too bad we’re such good friends. You would make a great boyfriend.” And see where he goes with it. If he laughs it off, so do you. If he can take a hint, he will!
The other option is to just kiss him one night and see what happens…
Let me know what you do!
LTM,
DG
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I am falling for my guy friend and I really don't know what to do. He and I are part of a group of 8, 4 guys and 4 girls and we are all platonic friends. In December he confessed to me that he was falling for another member of our group and (at the time I had no romantic interests in him) I coached him through it. He eventaully asked her out and she rejected him. Now he is getting over her and I have been helping with his process... but somewhere along the line I definately fell in love. I really want to tell him, but I don''t want to "take advantage" of his emotional state and above all I don't want to lose his friendship. What should I do?
A: You can either go the joke route so you don’t risk anything or you make a move and risk losing a friend.
If you go the joke route, say, “Too bad we’re such good friends. You would make a great boyfriend.” And see where he goes with it. If he laughs it off, so do you. If he can take a hint, he will!
The other option is to just kiss him one night and see what happens…
Let me know what you do!
LTM,
DG
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Thursday, May 15, 2008
Late night last night. No question for today – just enjoy the silence!
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Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Q: I got flowers from this guy I’m not into. Do I have to call and thank him?
A: You can email something very short. Email so you don’t have to start up a convo. just don’t give him the wrong idea or he’ll keep calling, sending, etc.
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A: You can email something very short. Email so you don’t have to start up a convo. just don’t give him the wrong idea or he’ll keep calling, sending, etc.
LTM,
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Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Q: I just broke up with my gf, went on 1 date and now want her back. What do I do?
A: You may have just had a bad date and it’s making her seem better. If you broke up for a reason – like you want to get married and have kids and she just wants to play – then you should probably stay broken up.
If you broke up because you wanted to date other people, then you should do that for more than just 1 date, but keep her in the back of your mind and if you broke up for the wrong reasons, you can go back to her.
Hope that helps.
LTM,
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A: You may have just had a bad date and it’s making her seem better. If you broke up for a reason – like you want to get married and have kids and she just wants to play – then you should probably stay broken up.
If you broke up because you wanted to date other people, then you should do that for more than just 1 date, but keep her in the back of your mind and if you broke up for the wrong reasons, you can go back to her.
Hope that helps.
LTM,
DG
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Monday, May 12, 2008
Q: Okay, here's my question...There is this girl who works at the front desk of my climbing gym. For the past few months, whenever she is working, there is a constant exchange of flirtatious smiles. I am dying to ask her out, but I'm need some advice on a good way to ask her without looking too creepy, especially if I'm reading something wrong and she is just overly friendly. Should I just go for it or try to get to know her a little bit, which seems hard because it's pretty busy and there's not a whole lot of time for chit chat. Thanks
A: You should put it out there as a joke first and see how she reacts.
“If there weren’t so many guys hitting on you every day, I’d have the nerve to ask you out.”
If she responds positively with something like, “No one hits on me!” then you get to ask her out right then and there.
“Then maybe I just got the nerve. Wanna go out sometime?”
I’m sure it’ll be busy so if she says yes or anything similar to yes, tell her you’ll stop back on your way out. When you leave, get her number or email so you can talk outside of work.
Don’t be wishy washy. Confidence!
By the way, if she just laughs after your first line, then you’re probably done. You can keep flirting and see what happens or you can just ask her out and be prepared for a good or bad answer.
Good luck! Let me know what happens.
LTM,
DG
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A: You should put it out there as a joke first and see how she reacts.
“If there weren’t so many guys hitting on you every day, I’d have the nerve to ask you out.”
If she responds positively with something like, “No one hits on me!” then you get to ask her out right then and there.
“Then maybe I just got the nerve. Wanna go out sometime?”
I’m sure it’ll be busy so if she says yes or anything similar to yes, tell her you’ll stop back on your way out. When you leave, get her number or email so you can talk outside of work.
Don’t be wishy washy. Confidence!
By the way, if she just laughs after your first line, then you’re probably done. You can keep flirting and see what happens or you can just ask her out and be prepared for a good or bad answer.
Good luck! Let me know what happens.
LTM,
DG
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Friday, May 9, 2008
Q: Hey DG!
You've helped me many times in the past and I'm hoping you can help me out again. I was with this girl in high school for over 2 years. We had a pretty good break up and remained friends during my freshman year in college. But then she started seeing another guy and our friendship went downhill about a year ago and now she acts like she hates me and won't ever talk to me. this really upset me because she was an amazing person. However, I haven't changed my facebook password since I first signed up and she knows it. I found out that she still signs on my account and checks all my msgs and what not on an almost daily basis. I have no problem with it and have nothing to hide, but it's just confusing! If she acts like she hates me but stalks me what does that mean? Thanks!
A: That means TROUBLE. First, change your password. Even if you have nothing to hide, you’re just asking for trouble if you know she’s looking and you let her.
After that’s done, we can focus on the rest! I would just let it all go. Do you still like her? Did y’all already try to get back together before and it didn’t work out? There’s probably something she thinks you did that’s made her not like you. Have you tried to discuss it? You could ask if you care but I’d move on.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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You've helped me many times in the past and I'm hoping you can help me out again. I was with this girl in high school for over 2 years. We had a pretty good break up and remained friends during my freshman year in college. But then she started seeing another guy and our friendship went downhill about a year ago and now she acts like she hates me and won't ever talk to me. this really upset me because she was an amazing person. However, I haven't changed my facebook password since I first signed up and she knows it. I found out that she still signs on my account and checks all my msgs and what not on an almost daily basis. I have no problem with it and have nothing to hide, but it's just confusing! If she acts like she hates me but stalks me what does that mean? Thanks!
A: That means TROUBLE. First, change your password. Even if you have nothing to hide, you’re just asking for trouble if you know she’s looking and you let her.
After that’s done, we can focus on the rest! I would just let it all go. Do you still like her? Did y’all already try to get back together before and it didn’t work out? There’s probably something she thinks you did that’s made her not like you. Have you tried to discuss it? You could ask if you care but I’d move on.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Q: So here's the deal. Met a guy 2 weeks ago and we both fell like *that*. I'm 32 & he's 27; we know this doesn't happen everyday. Now he's off doing research on a boat in the middle of the ocean. Two days after he gets back, I go teach in this very remote (and ridiculously expensive-to-visit) Arctic town and don't come back till September. After that we'll be back in the same town. We both agree that despite the madness of it all (and despite the fact that we obviously don't know each other THAT well yet), we want to try to keep things going throughout the summer and not see other people. Any suggestions for how to not mess this one up?
A: Wow. That sounds hard to do! If you’re both into it though, you can do it.
Lots of texts, emails, some phone calls, letters (yes, by mail!), surprise presents and maybe even a surprise visit if at all possible.
You have to keep up the communication and you can’t give the other person any reason to lose trust in each other and in the end result (together at last kinda thing).
Oh, and make those 2 in between days count. Try to spend as little time possible getting acquainted again.
You have to keep the spark even will millions of miles between you from now thru September.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Wow. That sounds hard to do! If you’re both into it though, you can do it.
Lots of texts, emails, some phone calls, letters (yes, by mail!), surprise presents and maybe even a surprise visit if at all possible.
You have to keep up the communication and you can’t give the other person any reason to lose trust in each other and in the end result (together at last kinda thing).
Oh, and make those 2 in between days count. Try to spend as little time possible getting acquainted again.
You have to keep the spark even will millions of miles between you from now thru September.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Happy Birthday Sean! You kick ass even though you’re getting old.
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Monday, May 5, 2008
Q: How appropriate is the date request via email?
A: If it’s a first date, you’ve gotta call. The only way out is if you’ve been playing phone tag and just can’t get in touch. Otherwise, sorry to say it, but you have to talk!
LTM
DG
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A: If it’s a first date, you’ve gotta call. The only way out is if you’ve been playing phone tag and just can’t get in touch. Otherwise, sorry to say it, but you have to talk!
LTM
DG
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Sunday, May 4, 2008
Q: Scenario: Dated a girl in high school for almost 2 years, we broke up when i went far away to the land of collegedom. Now i've been dating someone else for a while, but high school girl will be going to college here too, and want to pick up where we left off. New girls more attractive, but high school girls got history. How should i play this out?
A: When does the old girl get to college? Not until next fall? If that’s the case, play it out with new girl and see what happens until then. You’ve got plenty of time to see if the new girl is something real or not. New girl could be over and out in a month for all you know!
If it’s sooner than that, then you have to make a decision and it can’t be based on looks! Who do you have more fun with? Who would you rather hang out with? Who’s got brains to go with the beauty? Who would you rather take to a wedding if you were invited with a date?
Hope that helps!
LTM
DG
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A: When does the old girl get to college? Not until next fall? If that’s the case, play it out with new girl and see what happens until then. You’ve got plenty of time to see if the new girl is something real or not. New girl could be over and out in a month for all you know!
If it’s sooner than that, then you have to make a decision and it can’t be based on looks! Who do you have more fun with? Who would you rather hang out with? Who’s got brains to go with the beauty? Who would you rather take to a wedding if you were invited with a date?
Hope that helps!
LTM
DG
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Saturday, May 3, 2008
Q: I guess I need some advice on what to do.
There is a girl I like, and she likes me too. But, she's not sure if she is ready for a relationship. She's had previous destructive relationships and that is kind of affecting her choices now. Unfortunately we are both leaving school for the summer and she's probably not coming back next fall. The big catch is that we live on opposite ends of the US. I like her and don't want her to make another wrong decision based on what I want. We are both okay with being friends but I can't help to think that there is something more to this girl, that we might be made for each other. But like I said, she lives on the other coast. What do I need to do to be a good friend but still help chances at a relationship?
A: This one probably won’t work out. Too many “ifs” and not enough time. I’d just befriend her and if you make some moves and she accepts, then great. If not, you’re onto bigger and better and more local.
Really, this one sounds like too much complication for what little time you have together.
Sorry to be the Debbie Downer.
LTM
DG
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There is a girl I like, and she likes me too. But, she's not sure if she is ready for a relationship. She's had previous destructive relationships and that is kind of affecting her choices now. Unfortunately we are both leaving school for the summer and she's probably not coming back next fall. The big catch is that we live on opposite ends of the US. I like her and don't want her to make another wrong decision based on what I want. We are both okay with being friends but I can't help to think that there is something more to this girl, that we might be made for each other. But like I said, she lives on the other coast. What do I need to do to be a good friend but still help chances at a relationship?
A: This one probably won’t work out. Too many “ifs” and not enough time. I’d just befriend her and if you make some moves and she accepts, then great. If not, you’re onto bigger and better and more local.
Really, this one sounds like too much complication for what little time you have together.
Sorry to be the Debbie Downer.
LTM
DG
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Friday, May 2, 2008
Q: My boyfriends best friend decided to tell me he wants to be with me. Although I've expressed my love for my boyfriend many times, his friend still insists on becoming the new love of my life. I do not have feelings for him but i think he's a nice person. Should I continue to be nice to him so that he and my boyfriend can still be friends? Or should I let my boyfriend do his thing and take care of this problem?
A: Tell the friend that it has to stop and you feel very uncomfortable and will have to tell your bf if it keep going. That way he’ll know you mean bidness! Even though it sounds a little threatening and babyish, you may have no other options!
Let me know how it goes.
LTM,
DG
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A: Tell the friend that it has to stop and you feel very uncomfortable and will have to tell your bf if it keep going. That way he’ll know you mean bidness! Even though it sounds a little threatening and babyish, you may have no other options!
Let me know how it goes.
LTM,
DG
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Thursday, May 1, 2008
Q: When my girlfriend does dumb stuff, I go climbing. These days I climb a lot. What happens next?!?
A: If you really think your girlfriend is dumb, you should break up. If there’s no respect (and how can you respect someone so dumb!), it’ll never last. Just make sure you aren’t annoyed with her now and this will blow over in a week and she’ll suddenly get smart again!
LTM,
DG
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A: If you really think your girlfriend is dumb, you should break up. If there’s no respect (and how can you respect someone so dumb!), it’ll never last. Just make sure you aren’t annoyed with her now and this will blow over in a week and she’ll suddenly get smart again!
LTM,
DG
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