Q: Okay, here's my question...There is this girl who works at the front desk of my climbing gym. For the past few months, whenever she is working, there is a constant exchange of flirtatious smiles. I am dying to ask her out, but I'm need some advice on a good way to ask her without looking too creepy, especially if I'm reading something wrong and she is just overly friendly. Should I just go for it or try to get to know her a little bit, which seems hard because it's pretty busy and there's not a whole lot of time for chit chat. Thanks
A: You should put it out there as a joke first and see how she reacts.
“If there weren’t so many guys hitting on you every day, I’d have the nerve to ask you out.”
If she responds positively with something like, “No one hits on me!” then you get to ask her out right then and there.
“Then maybe I just got the nerve. Wanna go out sometime?”
I’m sure it’ll be busy so if she says yes or anything similar to yes, tell her you’ll stop back on your way out. When you leave, get her number or email so you can talk outside of work.
Don’t be wishy washy. Confidence!
By the way, if she just laughs after your first line, then you’re probably done. You can keep flirting and see what happens or you can just ask her out and be prepared for a good or bad answer.
Good luck! Let me know what happens.
LTM,
DG
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