Q: So there is this girl that I'm crazy about at school. I will very rarely see her on campus now and then...last year we exchanged a quick glance and smile, but she was studying with a group of people so I didn't go up and talk to her. Like I said I rarely see her now and the few times I've had I haven't had the perfect moment I was hoping for to go up and talk to her. I'm getting a bit impatient and need to talk to her the next time I see her. How should I go about doing that? I don't want to be too blunt or creepy...
Thanks!
A: Just make it super casual. Start with small talk that anyone would have. Weather, water-cooler talk, etc.
Then move into a new movie that’s out or a new restaurant that opened and ask if she wants to go.
“Have you tried that new sushi place downtown?”
“no, but I heard it’s good”
“We should go sometime!”
“Ok”
“Wanna go this weekend?”
“would love to….”
Blah, blah blah.
Sounds easier than it is! I know!! Just go for it and if you’re casual about it, you won’t seem blunt or creepy!
Love the Madness,
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Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
My blackberry is not getting email right now and I am supposed to go to dinner with acquaintances. Total disaster. I am going to start pretending to be sick right now. Something like…
What time is dinner tonight? I have never felt more sick in my life. I think it’s allergies. If I die today and don’t make it to dinner you can have all my old shoes. Please feel free to use your cell phone during my funeral.
That’s all I have for today.
What is the world’s northernmost capital city of a country? I don’t love the way that question sounds. Today is an auto-reply day which is pretty good news. In addition to the answer, today’s auto-reply will include three Steve Martin movie quotes and one quote from Rod Laver. Please email me at Trapper@moosejaw.com for this important work.
Yesterday’s answer was the NFL.
Have a really good Monday. Really.
Love the madness.
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What time is dinner tonight? I have never felt more sick in my life. I think it’s allergies. If I die today and don’t make it to dinner you can have all my old shoes. Please feel free to use your cell phone during my funeral.
That’s all I have for today.
What is the world’s northernmost capital city of a country? I don’t love the way that question sounds. Today is an auto-reply day which is pretty good news. In addition to the answer, today’s auto-reply will include three Steve Martin movie quotes and one quote from Rod Laver. Please email me at Trapper@moosejaw.com for this important work.
Yesterday’s answer was the NFL.
Have a really good Monday. Really.
Love the madness.
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Monday, October 29, 2007
Q: I’m signing up for a dating website. Is it so dorky to put a pic up with my neice?
A: Not dorky at all but the people looking may assume it’s your daughter and get scared off. I’d try to find a solo shot for this.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Not dorky at all but the people looking may assume it’s your daughter and get scared off. I’d try to find a solo shot for this.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, October 28, 2007
Q: Hey DG,
My girlfriend and I just broke up the first weekend of October. I'm going to go out and see her the first weekend of November. I really love the girl, but the reason she broke up with me was because she can't reciprocate those feelings (or so she says). So, she doesn't want to lead me on i guess. Also, she has told me that she hasn't even told anyone that we broke up - none of her friends or anything. What does that mean? And what should I do when I go see her? I guess I still feel like there's a way to make it work out. Oh, I think I should mention that we started dating in January, and since September it's now a long-distance relationship. I'm 23, she's 21.
A: Why does she still want you to visit? If she broke up with you, you’d think the visit would be off too….
If you think you can get back together, make sure you listen to what she says. If she’s not that into you, do you want her? If she is into you and just scared, it’s another thing but make sure you figure out which it is so you get everything you deserve too.
Not sure why she wouldn’t tell her friends. Is she considering it more of a break than a break up? My friends would be the first to know (maybe 2nd) if it was my breakup.
Can you ask her all these questions? Can you have a serious talk about it so you’re not stuck questioning everything?
Let me know what you think of all this.
Good Luck.
Love the Madness,
DG
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My girlfriend and I just broke up the first weekend of October. I'm going to go out and see her the first weekend of November. I really love the girl, but the reason she broke up with me was because she can't reciprocate those feelings (or so she says). So, she doesn't want to lead me on i guess. Also, she has told me that she hasn't even told anyone that we broke up - none of her friends or anything. What does that mean? And what should I do when I go see her? I guess I still feel like there's a way to make it work out. Oh, I think I should mention that we started dating in January, and since September it's now a long-distance relationship. I'm 23, she's 21.
A: Why does she still want you to visit? If she broke up with you, you’d think the visit would be off too….
If you think you can get back together, make sure you listen to what she says. If she’s not that into you, do you want her? If she is into you and just scared, it’s another thing but make sure you figure out which it is so you get everything you deserve too.
Not sure why she wouldn’t tell her friends. Is she considering it more of a break than a break up? My friends would be the first to know (maybe 2nd) if it was my breakup.
Can you ask her all these questions? Can you have a serious talk about it so you’re not stuck questioning everything?
Let me know what you think of all this.
Good Luck.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, October 27, 2007
Q: Hey DG,
So I need some help in decoding some mixed signals I'm getting from this guy I like. We're both seniors in college, and have been hanging out a lot lately, both with friends and just the two of us. When we are together, we get along well, have a great time, and all of our friends have mentioned how we both like each other etc. He's worked up the courage to hold my hand a few times (I know, its like I'm in 1955), but has yet to kiss me, despite having several really good chances to. (I feel i should mention, he's never had a girlfriend or kissed anyone before) Is he just shy? Waiting for the right moment? Or am I reading too much into the handholding?
Advice on how I should go about this situation? (Besides, "just kiss him"- he's got to make the first move)
Thanks
A: You either have to make the first move or dump him. It is a little odd that he hasn’t kissed anyone before. I know he’s shy but still!
If you’re willing to wait, then wait but know that one of you will have to be bold at some point! 2 shies thru and thru may be tough!
Keep me posted.
Good Luck
Love the Madness,
DG
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So I need some help in decoding some mixed signals I'm getting from this guy I like. We're both seniors in college, and have been hanging out a lot lately, both with friends and just the two of us. When we are together, we get along well, have a great time, and all of our friends have mentioned how we both like each other etc. He's worked up the courage to hold my hand a few times (I know, its like I'm in 1955), but has yet to kiss me, despite having several really good chances to. (I feel i should mention, he's never had a girlfriend or kissed anyone before) Is he just shy? Waiting for the right moment? Or am I reading too much into the handholding?
Advice on how I should go about this situation? (Besides, "just kiss him"- he's got to make the first move)
Thanks
A: You either have to make the first move or dump him. It is a little odd that he hasn’t kissed anyone before. I know he’s shy but still!
If you’re willing to wait, then wait but know that one of you will have to be bold at some point! 2 shies thru and thru may be tough!
Keep me posted.
Good Luck
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, October 26, 2007
Q: Hey DG,
I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months and I think it is time to break it off. This is my first long relationship and I do not know how to let her know. She is a great girl and I do not want to hurt her feelings, but I can't be in this relationship any longer. How do I let her know without any unneeded pain? I feel like I can't just come out and surprise her with it. Please help.
A: You have to be totally honest. It’ll suck at first, but she’ll respect you much more in the end. You can’t string her along. You can’t pretend and you can’t waste her time. Those are the things she’ll end up blaming you for.
Rip the band aid off – in a very sweet way! Really, tell her you’ve started thinking about it and she’s amazing but it’s just not working for you anymore. If you can give real examples, it’ll help but just be honest and nice and everything will turn out ok.
Hope that helps.
Good Luck
Love the Madness,
DG
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I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 months and I think it is time to break it off. This is my first long relationship and I do not know how to let her know. She is a great girl and I do not want to hurt her feelings, but I can't be in this relationship any longer. How do I let her know without any unneeded pain? I feel like I can't just come out and surprise her with it. Please help.
A: You have to be totally honest. It’ll suck at first, but she’ll respect you much more in the end. You can’t string her along. You can’t pretend and you can’t waste her time. Those are the things she’ll end up blaming you for.
Rip the band aid off – in a very sweet way! Really, tell her you’ve started thinking about it and she’s amazing but it’s just not working for you anymore. If you can give real examples, it’ll help but just be honest and nice and everything will turn out ok.
Hope that helps.
Good Luck
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, October 25, 2007
Q: This guy I've had a crush on for years was in my brothers wedding recently, as was I, and he was really flirty, more so than in the past. He even invited himself to come camping with me. He'd been dating this girl for a long time, but last I heard they had broken up. The whole wedding process he never mentioned a girlfriend, but she was definitely at the wedding.
Is it just me, or was him flirting more than usual, and not mentioning his girlfriend unusual? I want to call him and hang out, hoping for more, but not if more isn't on his mind too.
A: You have to find out if he has a girlfriend or not. If he does, drop it. If he doesn’t then you could email him a “Hey how ya doin” email and see what he says.
Fun stuff!!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Is it just me, or was him flirting more than usual, and not mentioning his girlfriend unusual? I want to call him and hang out, hoping for more, but not if more isn't on his mind too.
A: You have to find out if he has a girlfriend or not. If he does, drop it. If he doesn’t then you could email him a “Hey how ya doin” email and see what he says.
Fun stuff!!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Q: OK, so this has to do with age difference...
I am a fairly active 45 yo guy (ride, marathons, motorcycle, active, etc). There don't seem to be a lot of active and attractive women my age that are single, but there are lots of younger fit women that find me attractive. My question is... what age difference is really too much ? I have dated some really intelligent, fit and hot younger ladies, but more than 10 years younger seems too young to me, but they don't have a problem with it. What do you think ?
A: 10-12 years is a good limit. Any younger and you’re just different generations and don’t have enough in common.
Bottom line is – if you feel comfortable, go for it. If you think it’s weird and father-daughter-ish, pass!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I am a fairly active 45 yo guy (ride, marathons, motorcycle, active, etc). There don't seem to be a lot of active and attractive women my age that are single, but there are lots of younger fit women that find me attractive. My question is... what age difference is really too much ? I have dated some really intelligent, fit and hot younger ladies, but more than 10 years younger seems too young to me, but they don't have a problem with it. What do you think ?
A: 10-12 years is a good limit. Any younger and you’re just different generations and don’t have enough in common.
Bottom line is – if you feel comfortable, go for it. If you think it’s weird and father-daughter-ish, pass!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, October 22, 2007
Q: How many years have you dated the same guy? Is it crazy if it’s been 7 years and I’m not engaged yet?
A: My longest was 4 years but I was younger and not ready to be married so it didn’t matter how long. 7 years is long, especially if you’re older but you can’t force it. You can discuss it, but if someone’s not ready, forcing an engagement could be bad for everyone.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: My longest was 4 years but I was younger and not ready to be married so it didn’t matter how long. 7 years is long, especially if you’re older but you can’t force it. You can discuss it, but if someone’s not ready, forcing an engagement could be bad for everyone.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, October 21, 2007
Happy Anniversary J and K!!
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Saturday, October 20, 2007
Q: My bf and I have not been dating for about 2 months. He was the one that broke up with me, he calls me and tells me he still loves me. He wants to know if I'm still planning on going to Thanksgiving with his family. ??? Dude, you broke up with me!! I've moved on, and for obvious reasons, I'm doing Thanksgiving with my family. How do I get the point across?
A: You have to tell him straight up. Just tell him you had a great thing but it ended and you can’t keep talking or going out or going to his family dinners. He probably feels guilty…
It is weird though!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: You have to tell him straight up. Just tell him you had a great thing but it ended and you can’t keep talking or going out or going to his family dinners. He probably feels guilty…
It is weird though!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, October 19, 2007
Q: Hey, how's it going?! I emailed a girl, kept the note to her light asked how her fall break was but added we should try out this new restaurant downtown. I didn't think much of it but she responded back within no time saying hey with !! Marks and saying we should def try it out... I don't know how it gets more simple than that so I wrote her back the next day, still kept it short but asked for her # to call her. Weird thing is, that was 2 or 3 days ago, I usually would care but I know shes been on just because it shows up if change your status or whatever. How does it go from "def, we should go" ..To not responding? Should I do anything else..Or let it be? I know girls play hot and cold, but its not usually one extreme to the other haha thanks again!
A: She probably didn’t feel like the phone call at that point. Emails are easy but phone calls make everything more real. Give her some time but if she doesn’t respond, you can prob call it a day. If you can’t stop thinking about her, you could send one more email but know it’ll be a last attempt and no more tries after that. You could keep that last-ditch email just between you and me!!
No one needs to put themselves out there!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: She probably didn’t feel like the phone call at that point. Emails are easy but phone calls make everything more real. Give her some time but if she doesn’t respond, you can prob call it a day. If you can’t stop thinking about her, you could send one more email but know it’ll be a last attempt and no more tries after that. You could keep that last-ditch email just between you and me!!
No one needs to put themselves out there!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, October 18, 2007
Q: So, here's my question... how does one move from the just friends stage to a dating relationship.... besides inventing a mind control device or pursuing a second career in friendly, harmless stalking - not the scary-illegal-hide-in the-bushes type of stalking....
Also, since you're kind enough to offer free advice, here's some in return... Never buy plans for a mind-control device off the internet, even if it says "100% Guarantee or your money back". They're lying.
A: Make a joke at first so you don’t put yourself in a super vulnerable position.
"You’d make a great girlfriend! We should go on a date!!" Make it light and jokey so if she’s not into it, you can stick with the joke. If she gives you a Let’s Try It- vibe, then you have to move onto the real asking out. You have to do it right then and there so you don’t lose the moment.
"Great. Friday night, we’re testing it out. A real date. None of this friend stuff anymore!"
Hope that helps. Let me know!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Also, since you're kind enough to offer free advice, here's some in return... Never buy plans for a mind-control device off the internet, even if it says "100% Guarantee or your money back". They're lying.
A: Make a joke at first so you don’t put yourself in a super vulnerable position.
"You’d make a great girlfriend! We should go on a date!!" Make it light and jokey so if she’s not into it, you can stick with the joke. If she gives you a Let’s Try It- vibe, then you have to move onto the real asking out. You have to do it right then and there so you don’t lose the moment.
"Great. Friday night, we’re testing it out. A real date. None of this friend stuff anymore!"
Hope that helps. Let me know!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Q: I met a cute girl at a concert and then got to say a quick hey a few days later at a crazy party..but never got to talk long to get a number because of where we were. So got the add on fb and was wondering what to do next because I dont know how long or when I'll see her again. Thanks for the advice.
A: Send her a quick laid-back fb email. "Hey. What’s up!? Just heard that John Mayer song (or whatever concert you went to) and thought of the concert. Email back if you get a chance."
And leave it at that.
Hopefully she’ll email you back!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Send her a quick laid-back fb email. "Hey. What’s up!? Just heard that John Mayer song (or whatever concert you went to) and thought of the concert. Email back if you get a chance."
And leave it at that.
Hopefully she’ll email you back!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Q: I have a quick question for you. What is the best way to approach a girl that you like and ask her out. I mean, I want a girl's opinion on the best way to approach a lady without coming off too strong. I hope that is clear.
A: Be breezy but confident. Take the bull by the horns and just go for it. Make a little small talk, but then move in for the kill.
"Hey, what’s up. Blah Blah about the weather. So what are you doing this weekend? Wanna try that new sushi place? We’ll make it a date!"
Let me know how it goes!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Be breezy but confident. Take the bull by the horns and just go for it. Make a little small talk, but then move in for the kill.
"Hey, what’s up. Blah Blah about the weather. So what are you doing this weekend? Wanna try that new sushi place? We’ll make it a date!"
Let me know how it goes!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, October 15, 2007
Happy Bday Eli.
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Sunday, October 14, 2007
Q: DG
Been going out with this girl for 3 months and everything has been hunkey dory. Out of nowhere, she goes WILD CRAZY for about 48 hours. I have never seen anything like it, crying/yelling/not talking/calling 30 times in an hour etc., but now it's calmed down. Is it normal for ladies to get a little crazy now and again?
A: That's weird. You must have done something that you don't know about. Did you talk to an ex? Did you insult her without knowing? Did you cancel plans, hint at a present and then not get anything?
Girls get insulted and mad easily and don't tell you why.
Does that help?
Love the Madness,
DG
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Been going out with this girl for 3 months and everything has been hunkey dory. Out of nowhere, she goes WILD CRAZY for about 48 hours. I have never seen anything like it, crying/yelling/not talking/calling 30 times in an hour etc., but now it's calmed down. Is it normal for ladies to get a little crazy now and again?
A: That's weird. You must have done something that you don't know about. Did you talk to an ex? Did you insult her without knowing? Did you cancel plans, hint at a present and then not get anything?
Girls get insulted and mad easily and don't tell you why.
Does that help?
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, October 13, 2007
Q: Hey DG
I was woundering what a guy's to do with a girl that is very interested in me. Is a good kisser and good in bed. When she asks a opinion of me. Then she, as if I never recomended a solution or stated an opinion, goes out an makes poor chooices. Blame is placed on me when all goes very wrong for her. As if I caused the problem. Clearly I wasn't making the chooices. I don't get it Please help.
G.S.
A: Have your fun and move on. Don’t get attached. Don’t get too emotionally involved and don’t let her get too attached. As long as you both keep it casual, you’ll be ok. If she’s too “interested” in you, you may be in trouble and bring on the ole stalker-syndrome.
If you really like her then you have to have the talk. Not one right after she makes the wrong decision, but at a separate time so she isn’t too heated.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I was woundering what a guy's to do with a girl that is very interested in me. Is a good kisser and good in bed. When she asks a opinion of me. Then she, as if I never recomended a solution or stated an opinion, goes out an makes poor chooices. Blame is placed on me when all goes very wrong for her. As if I caused the problem. Clearly I wasn't making the chooices. I don't get it Please help.
G.S.
A: Have your fun and move on. Don’t get attached. Don’t get too emotionally involved and don’t let her get too attached. As long as you both keep it casual, you’ll be ok. If she’s too “interested” in you, you may be in trouble and bring on the ole stalker-syndrome.
If you really like her then you have to have the talk. Not one right after she makes the wrong decision, but at a separate time so she isn’t too heated.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, October 12, 2007
Q: I met a guy at the bar last night and I’m in love. Can I call him?
A: A) Don’t be all in love after 1 meeting. Guys get scared and it’s not healthy for you! I know, easier said than done.
B) Wait as long as you can for him to call you before you call him. If he doesn’t call in 3 days, you can call him but only once! Then if he doesn’t call back, you’re done!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: A) Don’t be all in love after 1 meeting. Guys get scared and it’s not healthy for you! I know, easier said than done.
B) Wait as long as you can for him to call you before you call him. If he doesn’t call in 3 days, you can call him but only once! Then if he doesn’t call back, you’re done!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, October 11, 2007
Q: Hey, I'm really shy, and there's this girl that has no idea who I am and I'm afraid of just walking up to her and talking to her randomly, how to I make the move!
A: You have to start slowly. Start with “Hi.” Then next time you bump into her, do the, “Hey, how are you?” You have to keep building it up and getting that I-know-you smile. Then eventually (in a couple weeks), you have to have a conversation and ask her if she’s tried the new sushi place yet. Then you go for the kill and ask if she wants to go Thursday night.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: You have to start slowly. Start with “Hi.” Then next time you bump into her, do the, “Hey, how are you?” You have to keep building it up and getting that I-know-you smile. Then eventually (in a couple weeks), you have to have a conversation and ask her if she’s tried the new sushi place yet. Then you go for the kill and ask if she wants to go Thursday night.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Q: Thanks for your help with the kissing situation. I didn't ask him to try the kissing for a week like you said, it was actually much easier than that. I just showed him your response and that was enough to make him realize how much I love to kiss and how much it had been bothering me that he hasn't been as into it.
So.... since you and I last spoke:
1. We kiss a lot more; he really is a good kisser - I love it!
2. He proposed!
3. We are buying a condo together!
Thanks DG!
A: Are you serious!??!
Wow!!! That’s amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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So.... since you and I last spoke:
1. We kiss a lot more; he really is a good kisser - I love it!
2. He proposed!
3. We are buying a condo together!
Thanks DG!
A: Are you serious!??!
Wow!!! That’s amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, October 9, 2007
Q: Is using web to meet people weird??
A: No! It’s a great way to meet people, especially if you don’t get to the bars! Go for it. Let me know if you want me to proofread your ad!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: No! It’s a great way to meet people, especially if you don’t get to the bars! Go for it. Let me know if you want me to proofread your ad!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, October 8, 2007
Q: This guy wore a shiny shirt on our date last night. UGH. What do I do?
A: You can’t not like him just because he wore a shiny shirt. You can always change clothes! File the shiny shirt thing away and move on! If you like him, go again.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: You can’t not like him just because he wore a shiny shirt. You can always change clothes! File the shiny shirt thing away and move on! If you like him, go again.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, October 7, 2007
Q: What kind of flowers should I get a girl I just went out with 3 times?
A: Get her a big bundle of tulips – all 1 color, not multi-color.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Get her a big bundle of tulips – all 1 color, not multi-color.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, October 6, 2007
Shout out to Casey!!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, October 5, 2007
Q: Funny question. What do you do if your man is a bad kisser? You'd think he'd take a hint at "ow" or "just forget about it" but it hasn't helped. It's a really awkward conversation to try to have. What should I do? I like him and don't want to hurt his feelings!
A: You’d think he’d get it but… not so much!
You have to make a joke of it. If he’s licking your whole face, stop him and do a big wipe with your hand and make fun of the situation in a cute loving way. Then it can be a joke and hopefully he’ll get it!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: You’d think he’d get it but… not so much!
You have to make a joke of it. If he’s licking your whole face, stop him and do a big wipe with your hand and make fun of the situation in a cute loving way. Then it can be a joke and hopefully he’ll get it!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, October 4, 2007
Q: How do you get a shy guy to open up to you when you're shy yourself?
A: One of you has to do the big count to 5 and go for it! If neither of you make the first move, it won’t happen. If it’s a good one, it’s so worth it to get over your fear for 5 minutes. I know it’s easier said than done. I’ve been there.
Take a deep breath, count to 5 and then do whatever it is that you need to do – hold his hand, touch his arm, kiss him, say hi, ask him to hang out. Whatever it is, just remember that if he’s just as shy, he’s waiting for you!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: One of you has to do the big count to 5 and go for it! If neither of you make the first move, it won’t happen. If it’s a good one, it’s so worth it to get over your fear for 5 minutes. I know it’s easier said than done. I’ve been there.
Take a deep breath, count to 5 and then do whatever it is that you need to do – hold his hand, touch his arm, kiss him, say hi, ask him to hang out. Whatever it is, just remember that if he’s just as shy, he’s waiting for you!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, October 3, 2007
DG, Thanks for helping my boyfriend with my bday present. I love it and he said to thank you!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Q: How long do I wait before calling someone back. I was home and just didn’t pick up so I want to call back now after hearing the message but how long do I wait.
A: 30 minutes is fine. You could have been brushing your teeth or anything!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: 30 minutes is fine. You could have been brushing your teeth or anything!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, October 1, 2007
Happy Birthday Stacy!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Love the Madness,
DG
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