Q: As of right now I am a confused man. I have known this girl for a long time and we've always been friends, but every time we try to be more than that she gets or has a boyfriend. She always says that I make her laugh like no one else but she has been dating this tool (who constantly wears carhartt vests i might add) for two years. I have tried on numerous occasions to intervene because she is way better than him and everyone can tell she is miserable. Plus she constantly flirts with me and at least pretends to not hate me. My question to you is, how do you talk sense into a girl who won't hear it and is it in fact worth it. Thank you and yes i do love the madness!
A: There’s not much you can do. Telling her she’s too good for the current bf isn’t working, flirting isn’t working and other people thinking it too isn’t working.
Continuing to talk about it is only going to annoy her. She has to figure it out for herself. Continue the flirting but in more of a friendly way than overt and sexual way.
Don’t spend all your time waiting for her though. It’ll make you crazy and less attractive.
I know it’s easier said than done but if she’s involved with someone, well, as they say, love is blind.
Love the Madness
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Monday, March 31, 2008
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Q: The girl I'm with right now wants to know your opinion on whther I should meet her family this weekend or not. We've been together for 3 weeks. It's her birthday and she wants me to come to the family dinner. Do I have to go??
A: I know it sounds terrible and you'll hate the whole things but you should probably go. So sorry about it. It'll suck for sure but it's part of being a couple... You could always break up...
Love the Madness,
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A: I know it sounds terrible and you'll hate the whole things but you should probably go. So sorry about it. It'll suck for sure but it's part of being a couple... You could always break up...
Love the Madness,
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Saturday, March 29, 2008
Q: I’m cooking for my new boyfriend tonight. Is it bad if I just make salad and chicken? I am so busy at work and don’t have time for the whole deal.
A: Sure. Just make the salad a little fancy with some dried cherries and pine nuts (easy enough) and get one of those Pillsbury bread loaves. They’re delicious and easy. Enjoy!!!
Love the Madness,
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A: Sure. Just make the salad a little fancy with some dried cherries and pine nuts (easy enough) and get one of those Pillsbury bread loaves. They’re delicious and easy. Enjoy!!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, March 28, 2008
Q: Is it Good Friday?
A: Good question. No.
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A: Good question. No.
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Thursday, March 27, 2008
Q: Why do girls think that when they smoke it makes them more attractive? I just dont seem to understand that nonsense not only is it bad for you, but then you smell horrible!
A: They only think that when they’re wack. There is nothing attractive about a cigarette and bad breath.
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A: They only think that when they’re wack. There is nothing attractive about a cigarette and bad breath.
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Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Q: So, my friends set me up with an incredible girl recently, and after a few casual group dates, we officially had our first First Date, which, at least in my opinion, went really, really well. The date ended with a longer-than-normal goodnight kiss at her front door, which I took to be a good sign. Now, however, it's been over a week without any contact. I've called twice and texted once, none of which have been returned. Is it a lost cause? Thanks.
A: Few things could have happened:
She met someone else
You did something to turn her off – did you put your tongue down her throat when you kissed? A definite turn off.
She decided she’s rather be alone than go thru dating again.
She’s playing the field.
She lost your number and her phone and any way to get your number.
In any case, if you think she’s great and you had the best time, you could try to call 1 more time, but then call it a day and move on.
LTM
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A: Few things could have happened:
She met someone else
You did something to turn her off – did you put your tongue down her throat when you kissed? A definite turn off.
She decided she’s rather be alone than go thru dating again.
She’s playing the field.
She lost your number and her phone and any way to get your number.
In any case, if you think she’s great and you had the best time, you could try to call 1 more time, but then call it a day and move on.
LTM
DG
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Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Q: Need to know if there’s a good way to date my friend’s girlfriend. I think I’m in love with her. I can’t stop thinking about her.
A: There is no good way. You can’t do it. You have to find another girl to think about. Find a new crush. Find a new hobby – anything to stop trying to get with a friend’s girlfriend.
LTM
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A: There is no good way. You can’t do it. You have to find another girl to think about. Find a new crush. Find a new hobby – anything to stop trying to get with a friend’s girlfriend.
LTM
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Monday, March 24, 2008
Q: I've been getting this creeping feeling that my girlfriend of close to two years is not the right one, and that I'm not the right one for her either. Would continuing to (attempt to) iron out differences be taking out more than it would be delivering good to the relationship?
A: After 2 years, you should attempt to make it right but if you know it’s not and won’t be, then you should cut the strings as quickly as possible. No reason to drag it out and waste your time and hers.
Be honest and respectful and one day you’ll be able to be friendly if you want.
LTM
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A: After 2 years, you should attempt to make it right but if you know it’s not and won’t be, then you should cut the strings as quickly as possible. No reason to drag it out and waste your time and hers.
Be honest and respectful and one day you’ll be able to be friendly if you want.
LTM
DG
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Sunday, March 23, 2008
Q: Can I text this new guy I’m seeing? I’m on vacation and I thought it might be too forward.
A: Sure. A text is simple enough. If you’ve only gone on 1 date and he hasn’t contacted you since the date, it may be a lost cause but otherwise, you can text from vaca.
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A: Sure. A text is simple enough. If you’ve only gone on 1 date and he hasn’t contacted you since the date, it may be a lost cause but otherwise, you can text from vaca.
LTM
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Saturday, March 22, 2008
Q: Thanks for the advice. I don’t have to go on the date I was dreading!! I think I’m done with that guy! How soon til I can go back on the dating site?
A: You can go back on. I’m sure he didn’t believe your excuse anyway and you didn’t say you were back with an ex or something so it doesn’t seem too bitchy.
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A: You can go back on. I’m sure he didn’t believe your excuse anyway and you didn’t say you were back with an ex or something so it doesn’t seem too bitchy.
LTM
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Friday, March 21, 2008
A: I hate my bf’s hair. It’s long and blond and almost feathered. Can I tell him?
Q: That sounds bad! Normally I would ask how long you’ve been dating and advise a gentle approach but he sounds like Farrah Fawcett so just bring out the scissors.
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Q: That sounds bad! Normally I would ask how long you’ve been dating and advise a gentle approach but he sounds like Farrah Fawcett so just bring out the scissors.
Love the Madness
DG
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Thursday, March 20, 2008
Congrats on the engagement Amy! You deserve it!
Love the Madness
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Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Q: I’m very stuck in my routine but my bf wants me to sleep over all the time. If I sleep there, I can’t wake up and have my coffee and paper morning. Do I have to give on this?
A: You should definitely compromise. Give and take. The paper can’t cuddle or give you a massage. So yes, give it up sometimes – not every day but some.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness
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A: You should definitely compromise. Give and take. The paper can’t cuddle or give you a massage. So yes, give it up sometimes – not every day but some.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness
DG
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Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Q: I blew this guy off a couple weeks ago and now I wanna go out with him again. Can I make up an excuse and call?
A: Yes but if the excuse isn’t good, it may backfire. Some winners: You got called out of town on biz, his email went to your spam/junk, you were sick and didn’t pick up the phone for a week, you were kidnapped, you died, etc.
Love the Madness
DG
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A: Yes but if the excuse isn’t good, it may backfire. Some winners: You got called out of town on biz, his email went to your spam/junk, you were sick and didn’t pick up the phone for a week, you were kidnapped, you died, etc.
Love the Madness
DG
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Monday, March 17, 2008
St Paty’s was moved this year. It’s not today.
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Sunday, March 16, 2008
Q: I got flowers from a guy I’m not liking at all. He’s pretty creepy – stalkerish. Do I have to call to say thanks?
A: If you really think he’s stalking, then no. Let it go. If he’s a nice guy just trying to get your attention, then you could email a thank you. Make it super brief though so he can’t read anything into it!
LTM
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A: If you really think he’s stalking, then no. Let it go. If he’s a nice guy just trying to get your attention, then you could email a thank you. Make it super brief though so he can’t read anything into it!
LTM
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Saturday, March 15, 2008
Q: What’s a good present for a guy?
A: MJ Tee
New MSR Reactor Stove
iTunes Gift Certif
computer screen cleaner
tie
car wash pkg
DC Hoody
Massage (if he’s into that)
Let me know if any of those are good!
LTM
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A: MJ Tee
New MSR Reactor Stove
iTunes Gift Certif
computer screen cleaner
tie
car wash pkg
DC Hoody
Massage (if he’s into that)
Let me know if any of those are good!
LTM
DG
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Friday, March 14, 2008
Q: Do I have to go to easter brunch at my in laws?
A: Yes! Unless you have a real excuse, then you have to go. Fake sick does count as a real excuse…
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A: Yes! Unless you have a real excuse, then you have to go. Fake sick does count as a real excuse…
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Thursday, March 13, 2008
Q: Can I go to a karaoke place on a date?
A: If you’ve known each other for a while, then yes. Or if you know she’s into it and it’s not a first, second or third date, then ok. Otherwise, be very careful. If she doesn’t feel comfortable, she’ll be dreading it!
Good luck!
And don’t make her sing if she doesn’t want to.
LTM
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A: If you’ve known each other for a while, then yes. Or if you know she’s into it and it’s not a first, second or third date, then ok. Otherwise, be very careful. If she doesn’t feel comfortable, she’ll be dreading it!
Good luck!
And don’t make her sing if she doesn’t want to.
LTM
DG
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Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Q: I’m getting married in a week and was just told I’m supposed to get my husband a wedding present. What do I get him? I can’t afford anything big….
A: Does he collect anything? Could you do a pic of the 2 of you in a frame – girly, I know. What about a homemade meal with all the trimmings? A __ of the month club – whatever he’s into – wine, beer, bbq sauce…. A new pillow so his neck doesn’t hurt every morning? Subscription to the Times or Sports Illustrated.
Hope that helps!
LTM
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A: Does he collect anything? Could you do a pic of the 2 of you in a frame – girly, I know. What about a homemade meal with all the trimmings? A __ of the month club – whatever he’s into – wine, beer, bbq sauce…. A new pillow so his neck doesn’t hurt every morning? Subscription to the Times or Sports Illustrated.
Hope that helps!
LTM
DG
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Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Q: Can I ask a girl to come over and I'll cook for her on a first date or is that too much?
A: That’s too much for date 1. Save if for when you know each other a little better. Like date 3. Make sure you know she’s going to like what you cook. If you ask and she hesitates, she probably doesn’t like it so suggest something else. Let me know how it goes!
LTM
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A: That’s too much for date 1. Save if for when you know each other a little better. Like date 3. Make sure you know she’s going to like what you cook. If you ask and she hesitates, she probably doesn’t like it so suggest something else. Let me know how it goes!
LTM
DG
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Monday, March 10, 2008
Q: I am confused d/g. But then most guys are.
She delivers parcels to me quite often. She is nice and smiles but then that's her job right? Now we say hello a little but I want to take it further without ruining her job for the future.
I thought of asking her outright - but - heck!
From a silly guy to a sensual girl I hope..........
Take care.
A: Is this your UPS lady?! In any case, you’ll have to start making friends with her. More than just the “Hi. How’s the weather?” You’ll have to start talking movies or restaurants so you can say, "We should see that together!" Or, "I’d love to try that place."
Let me know how it goes!!
LTM
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She delivers parcels to me quite often. She is nice and smiles but then that's her job right? Now we say hello a little but I want to take it further without ruining her job for the future.
I thought of asking her outright - but - heck!
From a silly guy to a sensual girl I hope..........
Take care.
A: Is this your UPS lady?! In any case, you’ll have to start making friends with her. More than just the “Hi. How’s the weather?” You’ll have to start talking movies or restaurants so you can say, "We should see that together!" Or, "I’d love to try that place."
Let me know how it goes!!
LTM
DG
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Saturday, March 8, 2008
Q: hey, i met a girl at a party and we started sending some messages on fb. a band we both like is coming this week to our town and i said we should both go and go get a bit to eat before. she said she really wanted to go and even wanted to know if we could eat earlier and still go to the concert. i wrote back and said we can def do that but i have no car at the moment, stuff happens yano, and played it off as a joke to lighten it up. i dont think it went over well bc i havnt heard back and ive seen she's been ona couple times..just bc its all in your face on ther e. i know its weird if i a guy cant drive, but to the point of not wanting to go out? it seemed like a done deal. and should i just write it off and go on or send her a quick note asking if were still on? thanks
A: Send her one more note and act like you’re on. If she blows you off again, then you move on. I like the idea of making the no car thing a joke. It is a little weird for the girl to drive – kind of a role reversal that she just wasn’t expecting! Since she’ll be driving, make sure you do all the other manly things like open doors, pay, make the plan, etc.
Good Luck!
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A: Send her one more note and act like you’re on. If she blows you off again, then you move on. I like the idea of making the no car thing a joke. It is a little weird for the girl to drive – kind of a role reversal that she just wasn’t expecting! Since she’ll be driving, make sure you do all the other manly things like open doors, pay, make the plan, etc.
Good Luck!
DG
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Friday, March 7, 2008
Q: I ran into an old guy friend that I haven't seen for a while, but that I've known since 1st grade. In fact, you could say he was my first boyfriend, if you can have boyfriends in 1st grade. Anyway, we had a great time catching up and exchanged numbers. That was 3 days ago. How many days before I give up hope that he'll call? Or before I should make the call myself?
A: He would have called by now if he was gaga. You can give it a good college try and call him but if he doesn’t call back within a day, write it off. You deserve to be chased!
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A: He would have called by now if he was gaga. You can give it a good college try and call him but if he doesn’t call back within a day, write it off. You deserve to be chased!
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Thursday, March 6, 2008
Q: So I've gone out with this girl a few times now. Every time we go out, we do datish-type things (dinner & a movie, museums, ice skating, etc) and I pick her up and pay and all that and it's always just the two of us. I've told her I like her so she knows where I'm coming from. But even though she always accepts the invites and answers when I call her, she constantly refers to our activities as "hanging out" and resists things like holding hands in the movies, cuddling, etc. So is she viewing these things as dates or what? I mean, I've been explicit with her that I like her and want to date her so she can't be thinking it's just hanging out, can she? Because of our schedules we've only been able to go out about every other weekend now and it's getting rough on me. Maybe I need to turn up the intensity since we don't see each other as much as would be ideal?
A: She knows they’re dates but she’s not that into you so she’s resisting. How did she answer when you told her you liked her? You could go out a few more times, but chances are, she’s just not into it.
I assume that’s the vibe you’re getting – trust your instincts!
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DG
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A: She knows they’re dates but she’s not that into you so she’s resisting. How did she answer when you told her you liked her? You could go out a few more times, but chances are, she’s just not into it.
I assume that’s the vibe you’re getting – trust your instincts!
Love the Madness
DG
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Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Q: Hey DG,
So, my friend's best friend came to visit her here at our college. She's in college a couple hours away, and we really hit it off. My sister was here though, so things stayed pretty friendly. We've been chatting back and forth on Facebook - should I take the next step and see if she wants to go out sometime? Or just leave well enough alone until things develop more, if they do?
Thank ya much!
A: For sure take the next step! She’s waiting for you to ask her out so go for it. No one likes a shy guy – except the girls who like shy guys.
Love the Madness
DG
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So, my friend's best friend came to visit her here at our college. She's in college a couple hours away, and we really hit it off. My sister was here though, so things stayed pretty friendly. We've been chatting back and forth on Facebook - should I take the next step and see if she wants to go out sometime? Or just leave well enough alone until things develop more, if they do?
Thank ya much!
A: For sure take the next step! She’s waiting for you to ask her out so go for it. No one likes a shy guy – except the girls who like shy guys.
Love the Madness
DG
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Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Q: I have too many dates this week and I don’t wanna go. Can I cancel last minute?
A: If you’re gonna cancel for good, it’s fine or if you’re gonna resched, it’s fine. You can’t cancel and just hope for a resched later. The guy will think you’re blowing him off. In any case, give as much notice as possible and make up a good excuse!
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DG
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A: If you’re gonna cancel for good, it’s fine or if you’re gonna resched, it’s fine. You can’t cancel and just hope for a resched later. The guy will think you’re blowing him off. In any case, give as much notice as possible and make up a good excuse!
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DG
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Monday, March 3, 2008
Q: Thanks a lot DG,
We went out last night and as I expected nothing has changed. I know what has to be done, but I am not sure about the right way to do it. Should I tell her that I don't want to do anything with her anymore, or should I not speak at all and just start ignoring/avoiding her? Thanks a lot again DG, your advice is highly appreciated!
A: At this point, you pull a fade. You don't need to go as far as ignoring her, but don't pursue her either. So no need to call her or go out with her. Make an excuse if she asks you and then it'll just fade out. No hurt feelings, no bruised egos, etc.
Love the Madness
DG
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We went out last night and as I expected nothing has changed. I know what has to be done, but I am not sure about the right way to do it. Should I tell her that I don't want to do anything with her anymore, or should I not speak at all and just start ignoring/avoiding her? Thanks a lot again DG, your advice is highly appreciated!
A: At this point, you pull a fade. You don't need to go as far as ignoring her, but don't pursue her either. So no need to call her or go out with her. Make an excuse if she asks you and then it'll just fade out. No hurt feelings, no bruised egos, etc.
Love the Madness
DG
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