Q: How long should I wait before moving in with my GF? I’m 30 and she’s 28. I think I’m ready but I’m not sure if it’s too soon to bring it up.
A: You can bring it up at 6 months and be living together within a year. The Honeymoon stage lasts about 10 months so if you make it past that and still love each other, you should give it a shot!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, March 30, 2007
Thursday, March 29, 2007
Shout out to Nikki for her bday. Love ya Baby!!
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Wednesday, March 28, 2007
Q: DG,
I met this girl about a year ago when we worked together. We clicked and often talked on the phone and texted. Unfortunatly, that was about as far as it went. I hadn't spoke with her for about 5 months until the other day when I decided to text her after consuming a few drinks. The next day she texted back saying saying how it was nice to hear from me. We exchanged a few more text messages catching up and when we were done, she ended it with "it was good talking to you, next time don't wait so long"
Obviously she still wants to keep in contact. Just wondering when would be a good time to call. Should I wait a few weeks before calling or should I make a call sooner and hopefully set something up?
Thanks
A: For sure sooner than a few weeks! Wait a few days, then call. If you texted her Sat night, then call her this Wed or Thurs. For sure ask her out too. If you wait too long, you’ll lose momentum.
Let me know how it goes!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I met this girl about a year ago when we worked together. We clicked and often talked on the phone and texted. Unfortunatly, that was about as far as it went. I hadn't spoke with her for about 5 months until the other day when I decided to text her after consuming a few drinks. The next day she texted back saying saying how it was nice to hear from me. We exchanged a few more text messages catching up and when we were done, she ended it with "it was good talking to you, next time don't wait so long"
Obviously she still wants to keep in contact. Just wondering when would be a good time to call. Should I wait a few weeks before calling or should I make a call sooner and hopefully set something up?
Thanks
A: For sure sooner than a few weeks! Wait a few days, then call. If you texted her Sat night, then call her this Wed or Thurs. For sure ask her out too. If you wait too long, you’ll lose momentum.
Let me know how it goes!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Q: I went out with this guy once and he was nice enough, but I'm not interested in going out with him again and now I'm not really sure how to let him know. I'm such a chicken. He called and I had an honest answer prepared, but he was so enthusiastic that I coulnd't do it. Now he's calling again and I don't know what to say.
A: Either go with the honest answer (always a respectable choice!) or just fade out – don’t call him back (not as respectable but definitely easier!)
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: Either go with the honest answer (always a respectable choice!) or just fade out – don’t call him back (not as respectable but definitely easier!)
Let me know how it goes.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, March 26, 2007
Q: I have another issue. I moved in with two guys and I really like one of them, but I don't know if I should let him know and jeopardize the cohesive environment we currently enjoy. I think he may like me back and we're playing these silly headgames, but its driving me insane. I get the feeling that neither one of us wants to say something first. He came out with my friends and I this past weekend and he was flirting with other girls and it pissed me off. Also, our other roommate made a comment in passing recently about roommates being off-limits. Is it worth saying something or should I wait 5 months until we move out?
A: I agree. If you can help it at all, roommates are off limits!! Let it go if you possibly can. Find a new crush. Go on other dates. Anything to take your mind off him for at least 4 months so you only have 1 month to ruin the house!!!
I know, easier said than done so if you can’t help it, have fun but keep in mind that you may have to start looking for another house!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: I agree. If you can help it at all, roommates are off limits!! Let it go if you possibly can. Find a new crush. Go on other dates. Anything to take your mind off him for at least 4 months so you only have 1 month to ruin the house!!!
I know, easier said than done so if you can’t help it, have fun but keep in mind that you may have to start looking for another house!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, March 25, 2007
Q: So Dating Girl...
Let me start by saying that you're awesome.
And now to my question... I am totally into this really cute waitress who works at the bistro just across the street from my apartment. She is always very friendly and flirtacious with me when I go there. Even when I walk by and she sees me she always smiles and says hi and all that wonderful stuff. Anyways I was curious to how I could go about asking her out without sounding like just another desperate guy? And what would be a good first date idea?
From our short lived conversations it seems like we really click and that I am always making her smile and laugh, but I still wanted another girl's opinion on it all.
A: First of all, Thanks!
Secondly, you have to just ask her straight up. Next time you’re eating there and she’s your waitress, at the end of the meal, say, “So will you think I’m just another flirty customer if I ask you out?” She’ll either say No and get bashful or she’ll make a joke and blow it off. If she does the former, then you continue, “Do you want to go out this sometime this week? Thurs night?”
For the first date idea, don’t get too creative. It’s not necessary and we usually don’t like the stress of the creative date. Go out for dinner or drinks. Or coffee or ice cream/dessert.
Good luck!! Let me know what happens!
Bond, James Bond.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Let me start by saying that you're awesome.
And now to my question... I am totally into this really cute waitress who works at the bistro just across the street from my apartment. She is always very friendly and flirtacious with me when I go there. Even when I walk by and she sees me she always smiles and says hi and all that wonderful stuff. Anyways I was curious to how I could go about asking her out without sounding like just another desperate guy? And what would be a good first date idea?
From our short lived conversations it seems like we really click and that I am always making her smile and laugh, but I still wanted another girl's opinion on it all.
A: First of all, Thanks!
Secondly, you have to just ask her straight up. Next time you’re eating there and she’s your waitress, at the end of the meal, say, “So will you think I’m just another flirty customer if I ask you out?” She’ll either say No and get bashful or she’ll make a joke and blow it off. If she does the former, then you continue, “Do you want to go out this sometime this week? Thurs night?”
For the first date idea, don’t get too creative. It’s not necessary and we usually don’t like the stress of the creative date. Go out for dinner or drinks. Or coffee or ice cream/dessert.
Good luck!! Let me know what happens!
Bond, James Bond.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, March 24, 2007
Q: DG,
So I dated a girl for like 1.5yrs. I thought we were pretty serious, so i got her a nice gift for v-day. She rejected it, so now v-day is my least fav holiday (I'm sure i'm not alone with that one)... anyways, I haven't talked to her for over a month, she says she has some doubts and wants independence. Is this normal??? Cause it seems kinda crazy to me... Everything was fine, then BAM, it all fell apart. Should i give her time to figure things out, or jus move on and find someone else? I care about her, but I think she's got issues... thanks~
A: Sounds like she was thinking about this a lot before she let you in on her doubts. She was probably wavering for a while and then there was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
I would give her space. If you’re still madly in love, then wait a few weeks before asking her about things again. If you’re not madly in love and missing her like crazy, then you should move on. It probably wasn’t meant to be.
Let me know what happens!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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So I dated a girl for like 1.5yrs. I thought we were pretty serious, so i got her a nice gift for v-day. She rejected it, so now v-day is my least fav holiday (I'm sure i'm not alone with that one)... anyways, I haven't talked to her for over a month, she says she has some doubts and wants independence. Is this normal??? Cause it seems kinda crazy to me... Everything was fine, then BAM, it all fell apart. Should i give her time to figure things out, or jus move on and find someone else? I care about her, but I think she's got issues... thanks~
A: Sounds like she was thinking about this a lot before she let you in on her doubts. She was probably wavering for a while and then there was the straw that broke the camel’s back.
I would give her space. If you’re still madly in love, then wait a few weeks before asking her about things again. If you’re not madly in love and missing her like crazy, then you should move on. It probably wasn’t meant to be.
Let me know what happens!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, March 23, 2007
Q: DG,
I've got a funny situation here. I recently moved 2 blocks from a girl I used to work with and hadn't seen for a while. So she and I go out to catch drink to catch up (no further expectations at least on my part). Fast forward a couple drinks and she's all over me at the bar, fast forward a few more and we're headed back to her place. Nothing too serious happened, but next day I get one of those 'Whoa, crazy nite last nite text messages'. We had always gotten along real well and were attracted to each other, so I'm wonderin' what to make of all this. Any thoughts?
A: Couple questions – Do you want more than just friendship? Do you want to keep it fun or would you be into a relationship?
If you don’t want anything to come of this, then let it go.
If you do want something, then you need to keep the ball rolling. She made the first move so you should make the 2nd. Call and ask her out again. Take her out to dinner so it seems a little more serious than just drinks and see what happens. See if she’s still into it with just 1 drink instead of 3!!
Let me know what happens!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I've got a funny situation here. I recently moved 2 blocks from a girl I used to work with and hadn't seen for a while. So she and I go out to catch drink to catch up (no further expectations at least on my part). Fast forward a couple drinks and she's all over me at the bar, fast forward a few more and we're headed back to her place. Nothing too serious happened, but next day I get one of those 'Whoa, crazy nite last nite text messages'. We had always gotten along real well and were attracted to each other, so I'm wonderin' what to make of all this. Any thoughts?
A: Couple questions – Do you want more than just friendship? Do you want to keep it fun or would you be into a relationship?
If you don’t want anything to come of this, then let it go.
If you do want something, then you need to keep the ball rolling. She made the first move so you should make the 2nd. Call and ask her out again. Take her out to dinner so it seems a little more serious than just drinks and see what happens. See if she’s still into it with just 1 drink instead of 3!!
Let me know what happens!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, March 22, 2007
Q: DG,
I had been seeing this great girl back in January and I thought that things were going really well, but the problem is that we haven't been out since then. We both have busy work schedules which makes finding time hard - but for the last month and a half every time we could have gotten together she's had some excuse. She still calls frequently and returns messages right away, and always says that we need to go out again soon - but I still can't help but feel that I'm being blown off. I really like her, but I've been really frustrated lately because I don't think she is putting much effort into making time to get together. How much longer should I keep trying before giving up and moving on?
A: Make one more date and when you secure the time, tell her if this one doesn’t go thru, you’re throwing the towel in. No excuses this time! Then you really have to follow through. If she says yes, then breaks it, you’re done. She can’t keep pushing you back. If she was really into it, she would find a way to go.
Let me know what happens!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I had been seeing this great girl back in January and I thought that things were going really well, but the problem is that we haven't been out since then. We both have busy work schedules which makes finding time hard - but for the last month and a half every time we could have gotten together she's had some excuse. She still calls frequently and returns messages right away, and always says that we need to go out again soon - but I still can't help but feel that I'm being blown off. I really like her, but I've been really frustrated lately because I don't think she is putting much effort into making time to get together. How much longer should I keep trying before giving up and moving on?
A: Make one more date and when you secure the time, tell her if this one doesn’t go thru, you’re throwing the towel in. No excuses this time! Then you really have to follow through. If she says yes, then breaks it, you’re done. She can’t keep pushing you back. If she was really into it, she would find a way to go.
Let me know what happens!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Q: Hey Dating Girl,
I have been friends with this guy for around a year now, he's attractive, intelligent and pretty much all around rad. Did I mention he onsights 5.11c? Yeah, he's a keeper. Here's the thing: we're FREINDS. We can talk about anything, we go to movies, we climb together, and we've slept in the same bed and not done anything... except a lot of semi-sexual touching. I'd like to try to take it further, but I'm afraid I've missed my more-than-friends window. Should I talk to him, make a move or get over it?
Love some help on this one, thanks a lot!
A: I hate a talk. A guy hates a talk. But sometimes, when everything else fails, you need the talk. To avoid the talk, try a little more flirting. Give him the sex eyes, flip your hair, touch his arm while talking, hold the stare just a little longer than necessary… and see what happens. Go to Flirt City for a week. If he doesn’t catch on, then just lean in and kiss him one night.
Love the Madness,
DG
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I have been friends with this guy for around a year now, he's attractive, intelligent and pretty much all around rad. Did I mention he onsights 5.11c? Yeah, he's a keeper. Here's the thing: we're FREINDS. We can talk about anything, we go to movies, we climb together, and we've slept in the same bed and not done anything... except a lot of semi-sexual touching. I'd like to try to take it further, but I'm afraid I've missed my more-than-friends window. Should I talk to him, make a move or get over it?
Love some help on this one, thanks a lot!
A: I hate a talk. A guy hates a talk. But sometimes, when everything else fails, you need the talk. To avoid the talk, try a little more flirting. Give him the sex eyes, flip your hair, touch his arm while talking, hold the stare just a little longer than necessary… and see what happens. Go to Flirt City for a week. If he doesn’t catch on, then just lean in and kiss him one night.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
I have been good friends with this girl for 3 years, finally we started dating and for about 5 months had a great, but long distance relationship. This past weekend she tells me that she thinks maybe we are just friends and there is not enough spark to warrant continuing the relationship. I want to move closer to her to have a chance at a normal relationship but she doesn't want me to... however when she told me we should just be friends..about an hour later we ended up hooking up, but then she said we are still broken up... What do I do? How do I get her to feel that spark for me again and not just think of me as a friend?
A: Don’t be thrown off by the last minute fling. It’s always tempting when you can’t have it and technically, she shouldn’t have had it just then. Give her some time and space. Let her think about things for a few weeks and then either call or email her to see how she’s doing. Keep it light – short and sweet. You can tell her you miss her, but don’t get too into things unless she leads you there. If you smother her too much, it’ll only make her happier with the friendship decision.
Hope that helps
Love the Madness,
DG
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I have been good friends with this girl for 3 years, finally we started dating and for about 5 months had a great, but long distance relationship. This past weekend she tells me that she thinks maybe we are just friends and there is not enough spark to warrant continuing the relationship. I want to move closer to her to have a chance at a normal relationship but she doesn't want me to... however when she told me we should just be friends..about an hour later we ended up hooking up, but then she said we are still broken up... What do I do? How do I get her to feel that spark for me again and not just think of me as a friend?
A: Don’t be thrown off by the last minute fling. It’s always tempting when you can’t have it and technically, she shouldn’t have had it just then. Give her some time and space. Let her think about things for a few weeks and then either call or email her to see how she’s doing. Keep it light – short and sweet. You can tell her you miss her, but don’t get too into things unless she leads you there. If you smother her too much, it’ll only make her happier with the friendship decision.
Hope that helps
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, March 19, 2007
Q: Hi dating girl!
I've been seeing this fantasticly super guy who I couldnt help but fall in love with. I'm pretty sure this is the first time I have truly felt that way for someone before :)
Well, this past weekend, after a night of some cocktails... I told him I loved him. I completly meant it, and he said he loved me too. Considering we were both tipsy on booze, and we've only been seeing each other for a month or so, I feel a little awkward about it. Not sure what to do with that whole thing. Any advice would be wonderful. Thank you dating girl!
A: At this point, just let it go. No reason to talk about it when it’s already done and out there. Now just wait and he’ll say it again soon. Once you say it one more time, things will be normal and lovey and all fantastically super!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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I've been seeing this fantasticly super guy who I couldnt help but fall in love with. I'm pretty sure this is the first time I have truly felt that way for someone before :)
Well, this past weekend, after a night of some cocktails... I told him I loved him. I completly meant it, and he said he loved me too. Considering we were both tipsy on booze, and we've only been seeing each other for a month or so, I feel a little awkward about it. Not sure what to do with that whole thing. Any advice would be wonderful. Thank you dating girl!
A: At this point, just let it go. No reason to talk about it when it’s already done and out there. Now just wait and he’ll say it again soon. Once you say it one more time, things will be normal and lovey and all fantastically super!!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Sunday, March 18, 2007
Q: Dating Girl..
About a year ago I joined a cycling team and met a girl. I was involved in relationship at the time so the cycling girl and I became friends. She kind of faded away a bit when she found out I was already seeing somebody, she was also training for the Ironman so she was real busy with that too. In the interim I broke up with my previous girlfriend. Cycling girl and I have been hanging out a lot more recently and I think there is interest in a romantic relationship. How should I make that jump from friend to boyfriend without the possibility of awkwardness on group rides and at races if she isn't interested in more than a friendship?
Thanks, love your advice.
A: Oh, she’s just waiting for you to make the move! The ball’s in your court so go for it. Ask her out to dinner or drinks and make it more date-like than friend-like. You’ll see that it’s less friend-like when you’re in normal clothes in a dark atmosphere and not sweating and drinking out of water bottles!!
The worst thing that can happen is you’ll have to find a new cycling team.
Keep me posted!
Love the Madness,
DG
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About a year ago I joined a cycling team and met a girl. I was involved in relationship at the time so the cycling girl and I became friends. She kind of faded away a bit when she found out I was already seeing somebody, she was also training for the Ironman so she was real busy with that too. In the interim I broke up with my previous girlfriend. Cycling girl and I have been hanging out a lot more recently and I think there is interest in a romantic relationship. How should I make that jump from friend to boyfriend without the possibility of awkwardness on group rides and at races if she isn't interested in more than a friendship?
Thanks, love your advice.
A: Oh, she’s just waiting for you to make the move! The ball’s in your court so go for it. Ask her out to dinner or drinks and make it more date-like than friend-like. You’ll see that it’s less friend-like when you’re in normal clothes in a dark atmosphere and not sweating and drinking out of water bottles!!
The worst thing that can happen is you’ll have to find a new cycling team.
Keep me posted!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Saturday, March 17, 2007
Q: Okay so I met this Baylor Univ girl a few weeks ago at the bar and we've been talking since. She was visiting a friend up here in OK when we met and last w/e she came up again. So here's the deal. She's super fun to go out with, has a great body/looks, but is also super annoying at times...like when I get 14 b'jillion weirdass texts all day long....or when she drinks way to much....or how she laughs....that's it. Oh also she has split personalities...maybe.
What should I do cuz she apparently is really into me (I don't know why anyone would be really into me...or what "into me" means) and I'm not tryin to date outoftowner girl. I think she's trying to make flying up a regular part of her balanced diet. I like seeing her when she's up, but not the incessant texts/calls. HELP the Helpless.
A: You’ve gotta cut her loose. If she’s that annoying already, there’s no kind of body/looks, etc to make up for it! Especially the bad drunk and split personalities. Who could take it?!! If you liked her, those annoying things would be endearing and the b’jill texts wouldn’t be enough!
So... You can either let her know or you can fade it out. If you let her know, just be honest (but not too honest) and let her down easy. You’re just not feeling the connection; she’s super nice but you’re seeing someone else; you need to blow your hair; etc.
Or you can answer less texts and less phone calls until it fades. Not as nice but sometimes a necessary evil.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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What should I do cuz she apparently is really into me (I don't know why anyone would be really into me...or what "into me" means) and I'm not tryin to date outoftowner girl. I think she's trying to make flying up a regular part of her balanced diet. I like seeing her when she's up, but not the incessant texts/calls. HELP the Helpless.
A: You’ve gotta cut her loose. If she’s that annoying already, there’s no kind of body/looks, etc to make up for it! Especially the bad drunk and split personalities. Who could take it?!! If you liked her, those annoying things would be endearing and the b’jill texts wouldn’t be enough!
So... You can either let her know or you can fade it out. If you let her know, just be honest (but not too honest) and let her down easy. You’re just not feeling the connection; she’s super nice but you’re seeing someone else; you need to blow your hair; etc.
Or you can answer less texts and less phone calls until it fades. Not as nice but sometimes a necessary evil.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Q: Okay so I met this Baylor Univ girl a few weeks ago at the bar and we've been talking since. She was visiting a friend up here in OK when we met and last w/e she came up again. So here's the deal. She's super fun to go out with, has a great body/looks, but is also super annoying at times...like when I get 14 b'jillion weirdass texts all day long....or when she drinks way to much....or how she laughs....that's it. Oh also she has split personalities...maybe.
What should I do cuz she apparently is really into me (I don't know why anyone would be really into me...or what "into me" means) and I'm not tryin to date outoftowner girl. I think she's trying to make flying up a regular part of her balanced diet. I like seeing her when she's up, but not the incessant texts/calls. HELP the Helpless.
A: You’ve gotta cut her loose. If she’s that annoying already, there’s no kind of body/looks, etc to make up for it! Especially the bad drunk and split personalities. Who could take it?!! If you liked her, those annoying things would be endearing and the b’jill texts wouldn’t be enough!
So... You can either let her know or you can fade it out. If you let her know, just be honest (but not too honest) and let her down easy. You’re just not feeling the connection; she’s super nice but you’re seeing someone else; you need to blow your hair; etc.
Or you can answer less texts and less phone calls until it fades. Not as nice but sometimes a necessary evil.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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What should I do cuz she apparently is really into me (I don't know why anyone would be really into me...or what "into me" means) and I'm not tryin to date outoftowner girl. I think she's trying to make flying up a regular part of her balanced diet. I like seeing her when she's up, but not the incessant texts/calls. HELP the Helpless.
A: You’ve gotta cut her loose. If she’s that annoying already, there’s no kind of body/looks, etc to make up for it! Especially the bad drunk and split personalities. Who could take it?!! If you liked her, those annoying things would be endearing and the b’jill texts wouldn’t be enough!
So... You can either let her know or you can fade it out. If you let her know, just be honest (but not too honest) and let her down easy. You’re just not feeling the connection; she’s super nice but you’re seeing someone else; you need to blow your hair; etc.
Or you can answer less texts and less phone calls until it fades. Not as nice but sometimes a necessary evil.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Friday, March 16, 2007
Q: Hi dating girl.
I have recently met the girl of my dreams not only is she insanely beautiful but she loves to ski, mountaion bike cilmb rocks and go backpacking. the problem is age I'm 23 and she is 19. we have skied together a few times the last couple of mounts and have planed to do some biking and climbing when the snow melts. but every time i ask her to do somthng she is very hesitant and most of the time tells me she is to busy and has commented on me being to old. does she like me or not or am I too old for her. I cant let this girl go she is the coolest girl i have ever met I would be more then happy being friends but would like it to go farther. should i keep at it or just ask her to be friends. any advice you can give me would be a blessing. thanks a LOT
A: Don’t ask her to be friends. That’ll get you nowhere fast!
More important than the age – are you in different places in life? Are you out of college and in career mode while she just got to college and is off having fun?
In any case, just keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t press too much but don’t back down too much either. Keep it steady and see what happens. If she starts making more and more excuses, then you’ll know she’s not into it.
Don’t be overly nice and smothery or you’ll drive her away. Just be normal nice!
Hope that helps.
Let me know how it unfolds.
Love the Madness,
DG
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I have recently met the girl of my dreams not only is she insanely beautiful but she loves to ski, mountaion bike cilmb rocks and go backpacking. the problem is age I'm 23 and she is 19. we have skied together a few times the last couple of mounts and have planed to do some biking and climbing when the snow melts. but every time i ask her to do somthng she is very hesitant and most of the time tells me she is to busy and has commented on me being to old. does she like me or not or am I too old for her. I cant let this girl go she is the coolest girl i have ever met I would be more then happy being friends but would like it to go farther. should i keep at it or just ask her to be friends. any advice you can give me would be a blessing. thanks a LOT
A: Don’t ask her to be friends. That’ll get you nowhere fast!
More important than the age – are you in different places in life? Are you out of college and in career mode while she just got to college and is off having fun?
In any case, just keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t press too much but don’t back down too much either. Keep it steady and see what happens. If she starts making more and more excuses, then you’ll know she’s not into it.
Don’t be overly nice and smothery or you’ll drive her away. Just be normal nice!
Hope that helps.
Let me know how it unfolds.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Thursday, March 15, 2007
Q: Oh dating girl - please impart your wisdom of me. Ok, a super hot girl that just broke up with her boyfriend of 8 years wantst to go to the park with me to go for a walk. I'd be a rebound guy right which I don't wan to be . Unless she truly does just decent motives . Adivise me please.
A: You can go and just play it cool. If you don't move too quickly, it could work. The problem of not going is that she'll go with someone else and he may play it cool and slow and then you're outta luck!
You may be the rebound guy but I'd still go. Just don't don't don't do anything too quickly. Don't call her right away after, don't ask her out the next day, don't kiss her goodnight. Those should all wait for the 3rd date!
Keep me posted!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: You can go and just play it cool. If you don't move too quickly, it could work. The problem of not going is that she'll go with someone else and he may play it cool and slow and then you're outta luck!
You may be the rebound guy but I'd still go. Just don't don't don't do anything too quickly. Don't call her right away after, don't ask her out the next day, don't kiss her goodnight. Those should all wait for the 3rd date!
Keep me posted!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Q: DG, thx again for the great advice on asking my GF to marry m:} I am writing for help for a friend .. he is not going to write to you, and I know you have the best advice. He has only really been seriously dating a few girls.. EVER. He is now dating a girl that is married... she says she is sepparated, and pursuing a divorce, but isn't really taking stpes to prove it... ?? They are both like ~25 yo. He is a great freind, but it I konw he can do better?? Advice???
A: He should leave her until she gets a divorce. She’s stringing him along and may still be deciding about the divorce. If she’s really getting a divorce and likes your friend enough, there should be no trouble here. I agree with you that something’s fishy!
He doesn’t have to leave her for good, just until she’s divorced!
As far as you telling him this and him listening to you, that’s a whole other beast! You could forward him this email but if he doesn’t want to listen, he won’t. Love is blind! And scary!
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: He should leave her until she gets a divorce. She’s stringing him along and may still be deciding about the divorce. If she’s really getting a divorce and likes your friend enough, there should be no trouble here. I agree with you that something’s fishy!
He doesn’t have to leave her for good, just until she’s divorced!
As far as you telling him this and him listening to you, that’s a whole other beast! You could forward him this email but if he doesn’t want to listen, he won’t. Love is blind! And scary!
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Q: I really need help! I am in love with one of my closest friends and she knows it. I know that she considers me one of the closest friends she has ever had and she has very strong feelings for me too. I think that she is affraid to commit to a relationship because she is a committer. For her birthday Im flying her home, taking her to a concert, making breakfast in bed, then taking her for a message. I have put a lot of thought and effort into her gift this year. Its going to be just me and her all weekend. I really want to talk to her about where we stand in becoming a couple without scaring her off. What should I do Dating Girl?
A: When you’re in the moment, it should come naturally. Don’t bring it up out of nowhere. Ease her into it! Ask her if she could ever see you guys together? Even if it’s down the road sometime...
Assess the sitch. Don’t go too deep into it if you think you’re making her uncomfortable.
And most importantly, don’t do it too close to the beginning in case you get a bad response. No reason to ruin the time!
Love the Madness,
DG
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A: When you’re in the moment, it should come naturally. Don’t bring it up out of nowhere. Ease her into it! Ask her if she could ever see you guys together? Even if it’s down the road sometime...
Assess the sitch. Don’t go too deep into it if you think you’re making her uncomfortable.
And most importantly, don’t do it too close to the beginning in case you get a bad response. No reason to ruin the time!
Love the Madness,
DG
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Monday, March 12, 2007
Q: I have a question for you. I live in California and spend a lot of time at the beach. This also means that I meet a lot of the girls that I hang out with at the beach. Because of this my friends and I were wondering... what is the best way to approach and start conversations with girls on the beach without sounding creepy or desperate? Typically we just wait for the girls to make some sort of a hint of interest (i.e constantly looking in our direction) and then we just straight up go up to them and start talking. Usually this seems to work pretty well, but not always.
I guess that I would consider my friends and I to be decent looking guys and we all do pretty well with the ladies, but I would love a female's perspective the subject.
Thanks a ton Dating Girl and I think I can speak for all guys when I say that I appreciate the awesome advice.
A: I like the direct approach once they give you the eye. But… you could do a little more on the initiating side – initiating the eye contact part. You could start the flirting a little more.
Throw the football by them and do some smiling. You can even drop the ball by them if your manliness could stand it!!
I like your approach though!
Love the Madness and thanks!!
DG
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I guess that I would consider my friends and I to be decent looking guys and we all do pretty well with the ladies, but I would love a female's perspective the subject.
Thanks a ton Dating Girl and I think I can speak for all guys when I say that I appreciate the awesome advice.
A: I like the direct approach once they give you the eye. But… you could do a little more on the initiating side – initiating the eye contact part. You could start the flirting a little more.
Throw the football by them and do some smiling. You can even drop the ball by them if your manliness could stand it!!
I like your approach though!
Love the Madness and thanks!!
DG
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Sunday, March 11, 2007
Q: My friends and I are having a debate. How many times am I allowed to take my girlfriend back after she cheats on me?
A: Take her back once. The 2nd time it happens, it’s over! Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Love the Madness,
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A: Take her back once. The 2nd time it happens, it’s over! Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Saturday, March 10, 2007
Q: My girlfriend has the worst toes ever and it makes me sick when I see them. What can I do?
A: Get her a day at the spa gift certificate. Manicure, pedicure and anything else you can afford! Everyone wins!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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A: Get her a day at the spa gift certificate. Manicure, pedicure and anything else you can afford! Everyone wins!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Friday, March 9, 2007
Q: Glad to see you're back!
I think I just agreed to go on a blind date with my brother's girlfriend's friend. Normally, I get along with people and surprisingly, most people like me. I'm usually quiet at first and I find that I listen and figure people out (what to talk about, how not to offend them, etc.).
Anyway, the greeting/first impression tends to be where I can shoot myself in the foot with the ladies. My mouth turns into a mushy race car headed straight for a wall. Interviews, presentations, and speeches seem to be cake compared to the opposite sex. Any advice?
A: Think James Bond. We like a confident guy coming to our door so you need to buck up! I know that’s not a great answer, but you need to remember that we’re all nervous on the first date. Pretend you’ve met her before. Pretend you’re superman. Remember that it’s a quick half hug and a “hey, how ya doing?” and you can then move on from the awkward beginnings.
Hope that helps.
Bond, James Bond.
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Dating Girl
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I think I just agreed to go on a blind date with my brother's girlfriend's friend. Normally, I get along with people and surprisingly, most people like me. I'm usually quiet at first and I find that I listen and figure people out (what to talk about, how not to offend them, etc.).
Anyway, the greeting/first impression tends to be where I can shoot myself in the foot with the ladies. My mouth turns into a mushy race car headed straight for a wall. Interviews, presentations, and speeches seem to be cake compared to the opposite sex. Any advice?
A: Think James Bond. We like a confident guy coming to our door so you need to buck up! I know that’s not a great answer, but you need to remember that we’re all nervous on the first date. Pretend you’ve met her before. Pretend you’re superman. Remember that it’s a quick half hug and a “hey, how ya doing?” and you can then move on from the awkward beginnings.
Hope that helps.
Bond, James Bond.
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Thursday, March 8, 2007
Q: Dating Girl,
I appear to have gotten myself in a spot of trouble. You see, I joined the debating society at my college recently and, to my delight, found it was chock-full of delightful women. Always being one who loved a powerful woman, I developed a keen interest in one of the Captains.
That, though, isn't the problem. The problem stems from the fact that when I hung out with her the other night she made a comment to somebody else in passing that even though she didn't usually do relationships she seemed to be working herself into one with the other debating captain.
Being a new member, alarm bells went off. I don't want to show up and immediately start screwing with the social dynamic of the club while simultaneously shooting myself in the foot. I thought she seemed interested the other night, but there's no telling. What's the etiquette on trying to keep things going?
A: You can keep flirting from afar. Don’t step on anyone’s toes, but don’t back down until they are actually in a relationship. Once they are, you can step down. Just don’t make it too public that you’re likin on the captain. That way, he won’t find out and you can still pursue.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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I appear to have gotten myself in a spot of trouble. You see, I joined the debating society at my college recently and, to my delight, found it was chock-full of delightful women. Always being one who loved a powerful woman, I developed a keen interest in one of the Captains.
That, though, isn't the problem. The problem stems from the fact that when I hung out with her the other night she made a comment to somebody else in passing that even though she didn't usually do relationships she seemed to be working herself into one with the other debating captain.
Being a new member, alarm bells went off. I don't want to show up and immediately start screwing with the social dynamic of the club while simultaneously shooting myself in the foot. I thought she seemed interested the other night, but there's no telling. What's the etiquette on trying to keep things going?
A: You can keep flirting from afar. Don’t step on anyone’s toes, but don’t back down until they are actually in a relationship. Once they are, you can step down. Just don’t make it too public that you’re likin on the captain. That way, he won’t find out and you can still pursue.
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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Wednesday, March 7, 2007
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
I was just wondering - should I have any interest in this one girl - she's smoking hot but has a boy friend - and by coincidence - it's funny because I can always tell by her volume of calls and texts to me when she is having a fight with her boyfriend. Girls can be so evil :) I guess the obvious answer is that I shouldn't be talking to her anyway - I'll maybe just get a pet fish instead.
A: Stay away from taken girls! They can only be trouble. She’ll want you when she can’t have you. Use you when she’s fighting and let you go when she finds someone else! Nothing good can come of cheating.
Keep in mind, this is all advice from someone who’s been cheated on!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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I was just wondering - should I have any interest in this one girl - she's smoking hot but has a boy friend - and by coincidence - it's funny because I can always tell by her volume of calls and texts to me when she is having a fight with her boyfriend. Girls can be so evil :) I guess the obvious answer is that I shouldn't be talking to her anyway - I'll maybe just get a pet fish instead.
A: Stay away from taken girls! They can only be trouble. She’ll want you when she can’t have you. Use you when she’s fighting and let you go when she finds someone else! Nothing good can come of cheating.
Keep in mind, this is all advice from someone who’s been cheated on!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Tuesday, March 6, 2007
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
What are some good date ideas....my boyfriend isn't all that creative and I was wondering if you had any tips?
A: Cook dinner
Go on walks
Rent movies
Comedy club/ improve
Karaoke!!
Go to a concert
Go bowling and make a good bet
Get a drink (if you're over 21) at a bar with a cool atmosphere and chat the night away
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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What are some good date ideas....my boyfriend isn't all that creative and I was wondering if you had any tips?
A: Cook dinner
Go on walks
Rent movies
Comedy club/ improve
Karaoke!!
Go to a concert
Go bowling and make a good bet
Get a drink (if you're over 21) at a bar with a cool atmosphere and chat the night away
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Monday, March 5, 2007
Q: Dating Girl,
I’m about to say the L word to my gf tonight. What if she doesn’t say it back?
A: Then you just keep going. You’re putting it out there. She may not want to respond right away. She may be taken off guard. In any case, you want her to know that you love her. That’s what this is about. You love her and if she doesn’t say it back, you still love her. Hopefully she’ll respond in the next couple weeks on her own! But be positive!! Go in thinking she will say it back and you’ll live happily ever after!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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I’m about to say the L word to my gf tonight. What if she doesn’t say it back?
A: Then you just keep going. You’re putting it out there. She may not want to respond right away. She may be taken off guard. In any case, you want her to know that you love her. That’s what this is about. You love her and if she doesn’t say it back, you still love her. Hopefully she’ll respond in the next couple weeks on her own! But be positive!! Go in thinking she will say it back and you’ll live happily ever after!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Sunday, March 4, 2007
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
I broke up with my bf last night and I miss him already but I want to go start dating to get over him. Do I have to wait?
A: If you think there’s a chance you’ll get back with the ex, then don’t go out dating yet. If you are totally over him and the break up was just waiting to happen, then the sooner you can move on, the better.
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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I broke up with my bf last night and I miss him already but I want to go start dating to get over him. Do I have to wait?
A: If you think there’s a chance you’ll get back with the ex, then don’t go out dating yet. If you are totally over him and the break up was just waiting to happen, then the sooner you can move on, the better.
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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Saturday, March 3, 2007
Please say Happy Bday to Jo on Saturday!!!
Love you Jo!
-Tj
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Love you Jo!
-Tj
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Friday, March 2, 2007
Q: Dear Dating Girl,
I think that my girlfriend stole my favorite Moosejaw shirt! She does do all my laundry, but still, there are limits to what she can get away with. How should I confront her about this?
A: No that’s going too far!! But can you blame her? Here’s the solution – tell her you’ll get her a new t if she gives you back yours. Talk about a win-win!!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
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The Dating Girl and all of its related content are meant for entertainment purposes only and do not contain professional or other advice. The views, opinions, points of view and comments expressed by the Dating Girl are not intended to provide professional or other advice and are not those of Moosejaw Mountaineering and Backcountry Travel, Inc.
I think that my girlfriend stole my favorite Moosejaw shirt! She does do all my laundry, but still, there are limits to what she can get away with. How should I confront her about this?
A: No that’s going too far!! But can you blame her? Here’s the solution – tell her you’ll get her a new t if she gives you back yours. Talk about a win-win!!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
Moosejaw.com
The Dating Girl and all of its related content are meant for entertainment purposes only and do not contain professional or other advice. The views, opinions, points of view and comments expressed by the Dating Girl are not intended to provide professional or other advice and are not those of Moosejaw Mountaineering and Backcountry Travel, Inc.
Thursday, March 1, 2007
Q: Hey DG,
I've been dating this girl for a couple months and we get along incredibly well. We both have some time off from work coming up and we're planning a trip to this beautiful place on the ocean in new england. However, its off season so there will be very little going on there, and the weather is probably going to be terrible. We're there for five nights, the only two people staying at this B&B. Any suggestions as to how I can keep it fun? We always have great conversations and can waste whole days together just hanging out, but I'm worried that the eight hour drive up and then five days of just each other might get to be too much. I just don't want her to get bored! Thanks for any advice you have!
A: It’s all about the travel scrabble! Or Jenga, boggle, backgammon, etc. Really, if you get addicted to a game or 2, you’ll be good to go! Make bets on it – 10 minutes of massage is a good one.
You can always take walks in bad weather! Rent movies (or bring some). Get addicted to a new show – Lost, 24, Rescue Me – and bring the DVDs.
Bake cookies if there’s a kitchen.
Read a book together.
Do crosswords.
Hope that helps!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
Moosejaw.com
The Dating Girl and all of its related content are meant for entertainment purposes only and do not contain professional or other advice. The views, opinions, points of view and comments expressed by the Dating Girl are not intended to provide professional or other advice and are not those of Moosejaw Mountaineering and Backcountry Travel, Inc.
I've been dating this girl for a couple months and we get along incredibly well. We both have some time off from work coming up and we're planning a trip to this beautiful place on the ocean in new england. However, its off season so there will be very little going on there, and the weather is probably going to be terrible. We're there for five nights, the only two people staying at this B&B. Any suggestions as to how I can keep it fun? We always have great conversations and can waste whole days together just hanging out, but I'm worried that the eight hour drive up and then five days of just each other might get to be too much. I just don't want her to get bored! Thanks for any advice you have!
A: It’s all about the travel scrabble! Or Jenga, boggle, backgammon, etc. Really, if you get addicted to a game or 2, you’ll be good to go! Make bets on it – 10 minutes of massage is a good one.
You can always take walks in bad weather! Rent movies (or bring some). Get addicted to a new show – Lost, 24, Rescue Me – and bring the DVDs.
Bake cookies if there’s a kitchen.
Read a book together.
Do crosswords.
Hope that helps!!
Love the Madness,
Dating Girl
Moosejaw.com
The Dating Girl and all of its related content are meant for entertainment purposes only and do not contain professional or other advice. The views, opinions, points of view and comments expressed by the Dating Girl are not intended to provide professional or other advice and are not those of Moosejaw Mountaineering and Backcountry Travel, Inc.
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