Thursday, March 8, 2007

Q: Dating Girl,

I appear to have gotten myself in a spot of trouble. You see, I joined the debating society at my college recently and, to my delight, found it was chock-full of delightful women. Always being one who loved a powerful woman, I developed a keen interest in one of the Captains.

That, though, isn't the problem. The problem stems from the fact that when I hung out with her the other night she made a comment to somebody else in passing that even though she didn't usually do relationships she seemed to be working herself into one with the other debating captain.

Being a new member, alarm bells went off. I don't want to show up and immediately start screwing with the social dynamic of the club while simultaneously shooting myself in the foot. I thought she seemed interested the other night, but there's no telling. What's the etiquette on trying to keep things going?

A: You can keep flirting from afar. Don’t step on anyone’s toes, but don’t back down until they are actually in a relationship. Once they are, you can step down. Just don’t make it too public that you’re likin on the captain. That way, he won’t find out and you can still pursue.

Hope that helps.

Love the Madness,
DG

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