Q: Dear Dating Girl,
I have been good friends with this girl for 3 years, finally we started dating and for about 5 months had a great, but long distance relationship. This past weekend she tells me that she thinks maybe we are just friends and there is not enough spark to warrant continuing the relationship. I want to move closer to her to have a chance at a normal relationship but she doesn't want me to... however when she told me we should just be friends..about an hour later we ended up hooking up, but then she said we are still broken up... What do I do? How do I get her to feel that spark for me again and not just think of me as a friend?
A: Don’t be thrown off by the last minute fling. It’s always tempting when you can’t have it and technically, she shouldn’t have had it just then. Give her some time and space. Let her think about things for a few weeks and then either call or email her to see how she’s doing. Keep it light – short and sweet. You can tell her you miss her, but don’t get too into things unless she leads you there. If you smother her too much, it’ll only make her happier with the friendship decision.
Hope that helps
Love the Madness,
DG
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