Q: This whole ordeal started last monday when I found out that homecoming for her school was on the 22nd of september..so I was like JUNK! I have to ask her like..now......so I came up with this: she would come home from work that night (friday) at about 8.30pm...I was going to surprise her by being at her house when she got home..I was then going to take her out to her pool where I had put pool noodles that I had bent in to letters spelling HOMECOMING? .....and there was going to be roses on the diving board...so I am really exited...BUT THEN...I get a call from her mum who calls to tell me that my girlfriend plans to go to her friends house to spend the night right after work..so I ask her if she can try to convince her to come home for like 2 minutes so I can get her to say yes.....well..I get a call from my girlfriend to tell me that things between us arent really working....so I told her that we would talk about this later (i thought at the time that the whole pool and homecoming thing would hopefully change things and make them work)...at about 6pm I call and ask her mum to see if she was coming home for a couple of minutes, she says no shes still going straight to her friends house.....I ask her if she said anything else and her mum told her that she said she had broken up with me... I talked to her earlier tonight and told her everything I had done and why I wanted to see her friday....I was kinda going for the sympathy result ..no success .. yet ... she says we are not working because :1. we live too far away from each other...2. her parents wont let her do anything on weeknights (sun-thr)...3.she works fri nights and sat (almost all day) whats your take??
A: Sounds like she’s not that into it. She’s making a lot of excuses and you keep coming up with solutions, but she doesn’t want any solutions. She’s just trying to make you say ok to the idea of a breakup.
Having said all that, if you still love her, you should do just what you’re doing. Fight for it. Fight until you’re 100% convinced that she’s saying no. If you don’t fight, she’ll just know her decision to break up was the right one.
Does that help?
Love the Madness,
DG
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