Q: I've been dating a girl for 6 months now and she is exceptional. She's gorgeous, intelligent, independent, strong, and we're philosophically in tuned- something very important to me. I love her and she... is a little bit too much in love with me. It is not atypical for her to call me at work 20 times a day and when I want to go out with my buds and chill she puts me on a guilt trip. I love her, just 24/7 contact is being a bit overwhelming. I'm debating on marrying her but the more she clings the more I need my space. I've tried being sly and making jokes about this but it doesn't seem to connect. I don't think that she is not a social butterfly; going out of her way to make new friends. I find her current girlfriends slightly deranged with their own problems though her male friends seem quite normal.
Any thoughts- is this typical for women or is this the exception? Beyond sucking it up, or embarrassing and hurting her, are there any other viable solutions?
A: Yes this is pretty typical female behavior but you have to have a talk with her about it. the jokes aren’t working so you have to be serious and really let her know how you feel.
Tell her you love her and love spending time with her and this is nothing at all against her, you just need your space a little. You don’t want to get frustrated and end up picking fights that aren’t there so you wanted to let her know so you could solve it and spend the rest of your life happily ever after with her.
As long as you give compliments and tell her all the great things with this one bad thing, hopefully she’ll be ok with it.
Love the Madness,
DG
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