Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Q: Dear DG-

I've been dating this dude for about 9 months now. We've had a really awesome relationship up until recently. He has moved for the summer for a job, but will returning to our town in August. I wasn't too stressed about the move, because he kept saying over and over, that it's not a big deal and we'll get through it fine.

Anyway half the summer has gone by, and things were going great, then 2 weeks ago he calls saying he feels like he shouldn't have a girlfriend right now. wtf? He says he still loves me and wants to be with me, but 50% of the time doesn't. What gives? Is it the distance, or is he just an ass? He still calls like.. once a week, but it feels strained. He also swears it's not because he's met someone else. What's he doing and what should i do?

A: He probably wants to meet someone else. He sees opportunities and wants to get out there and not be held back. Either that or he has been thinking about a breakup for a while and the distance sealed his decision.

Either way, you should move on! Don’t hold yourself for him to see how he feels in a month. Go on with your life and if things are meant to be, they will be in Aug.

Just be happy he didn’t wait longer to let you know. Guys/Dudes tend to string us along!

Let me know what you think.

Love the Madness,
DG

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