Q: So, I was dating/engaged to this girl, and after some really screwed up stuff it kinda ended, we both say we have feeling for each other, but I'm not gonna become someone else, "change" who I was when she met me 1.5 years ago, and she, to me, has cheated. She says she hasn't "done" anything with this guy, but she in the last few weeks has spent more time with him than she has me. I am a firm beliver in the fact you don't have to sleep/do sexual acts with to cheat with someone. How do I get over her or fix this. I am leaving town for 12 weeks to climb Tahoe and she says I'm trying to run away, I say I am just trying to Grieve and not do stupid things. This guy, I know him, we have the same name, hasn't made any effort to defend himself and I know the way she "talks" to him, he would know that I felt something was going on. Is that a big point, I think so, but what do you think? What are your thoughts on this? Write back soon, she get home on Friday and more thoughts on the situation wouldn't hurt.
A: The 12 weeks away will definitely help you move on. 12 weeks is a long time. And I wouldn’t worry about the reason you’re going. It doesn’t really matter as long as you come back with some peace of mind. It sounds like you want to move on, it’s just easier said than done. I know! The less you talk to her, the less communication with her, the better. No emails, no texts, nothing – and you’ll get on easier.
I know it sucks but you’ll be better off. You deserve someone who loves you for who you are and at the same time, makes you the best person you can be!
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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