Q: Hey DG,
I'm 25 and I just started dating this really great guy about 6 weeks ago. We have so much fun together and unlike most people I meet, the more time I spend with him, the more I like him. Now, I'm not 15 anymore so I know that most people seem great for the first 6 weeks, but I really do feel (hope) that this is different. So my question is... who says "I love you" first? I have always had the life rule that I will NEVER say I love you first- the guy should DEFINITELY be the first to utter the phrase, but in a quick office poll, I'm getting mixed results. So I need to know what you think! He always says things like "I like you soooo much" and "I love spending time with you"... how long do guys usually wait before dropping the L word? Do guys want YOU to say it first? Help me out!!
A: The guy should say it! And 6 weeks is early! Give him another month at least. Sometimes it’s not until month 5 or 6! After that I’d worry – red-flag style.
If the girl has to do too much of the traditional boy stuff, it changes the dynamic of the relationship and next thing you know, you’re asking him to move in and you’re proposing. Ok, that’s a stretch, but you get the idea.
I’m sure he wants you to say it first but don’t make it so easy on him!
Love the Madness,
DG
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