Monday, May 14, 2007

Q: I met a girl this weekend with a group of her friends and we ended up hanging out 1 on 1 the rest of the night. We're both taking the LSAT soon and she told me to call her so we could study together. I have trouble deciding when to call, how much I can call, how many invitations I can extend etc. I'd love to talk to her a lot! But I know I can't call every day or else I'm coming on too strong. And I know I have to call SOME or else I seem uninterested. When do you call a girl for the first time after meeting her? When do you invite her out? If she can't then how long before you try again? I need a schedule here!

A: So you met her this weekend. Call her tonight or Tuesday and ask her out for this weekend. Fri is usually easier than Sat so ask for a Friday night date. You can take her to dinner. Here’s the thing. When you ask her out for Friday, and she says yes, say “Great. I’ll call you later this week to give you the deets.” Then you can call her again Thurs! Take her out Friday. Then you can call her Sunday. You can either ask her out then if you want a weeknight date or call again by Wed to ask her out for the weekend again. After a couple dates, she’ll start initiating calls too then you can increase to talking every other day or so. Then everyday. Then twice a day. Then marriage and happily ever after!!

Love the Madness.
DG

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