Q: It's been about 8 months of mostly bliss, and he's starting to pull away. It's a gut feeling I have, backed by the fact that I can't remember the last date we've been on (even though he still comes over and crawls in bed with me every night around 11 as i'm falling asleep). I've told him I really want us to have some quality time together, but it hasn't happened. It's making me feel needy/clingy when I do get time with him... But then I resent him for picking things other than me when we're not together. He loves having me around, but he's not making the effort to show me he loves me, at least, not the way he used to. How do I get through the next 4 days without a)obsessing over it b)writing him off and beginning to move on prematurely?
A: That totally sucks. I know that feeling and it’s NO fun! Unfortunately, every time I’ve felt that, I’ve been right. I’m not saying he’s losing interest. Your instincts may not be as good as mine! I am saying that you should put your guard up a little and be aware. Keep going with him. Keep things great and fun. And most importantly, keep the communication as open as possible.
Chin up!!
Let me know what you think.
Love the Madness,
DG
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