Thursday, May 17, 2007

Q: I was with this girl for 2 1/2 yrs, lived together and everything. We split about 7 months ago and she moved to back to AZ and I talked to her about 3 times since we broke up. She lied, cheated and used me for $. So...just talked to her and she said she has changed (for the better) and wants to come back (to Michigan). I asked her to go on a rafting trip leaving in 2 weeks, but not sure if I can trust her (think is may be using me for a ticket back here), should I have her go with me or should I break all ties with her and move on?

A: Lying, cheating and using you for money are 3 terrible things. They aren’t just little I’ll-change-em things either. They’re part of your personality.

If you can let her go and truly move on, let her go. If you decide to get back together, definitely move slowly and make sure she really has changed for the long term, not just until she’s spent a little more of your money!

Hope that helps.

Love the Madness,
DG

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