Q: Hi DG,
I’m having a problem with apprehension. The other day I was shopping at a crowded upscale shopping center place. Now I’m not 100% sure but I could feel the eyes of some girls on me and they started following me around as I wondered. So I got more and more apprehensive as they got closer and I felt embarrassed for myself. I have the same problem when I’m singled out in social situations, i.e. classes, parties, and just all around. I really don’t like this feeling and I thought I was comfortable with myself. What’s up with me and how do I become more comfortable in my own skin. I think I’m pretty good looking, not trying to be shallow, but I seem to avoid a lot of situations in order to take the attention off of me. It feels as though I have something in my teeth or my fly is open and I just close up. So what’s up with that?
A: You just need a little confidence! Or a lot of confidence. You said yourself that you’re a good lookin guy and I’m sure you are if you’ve got girls following you around.
Anyway, just remember that the people you’re hiding from are just people! Some may think they’re cooler, but really, you can be just as cool! It’s all in the confidence.
Fake it ‘til you make it!!
Hope that helps a little.
Love the Madness,
DG
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