Q: Dear DG please help me!
Okay, so here's my dilemma...recently I've been hanging out (just as friends) with this great guy - shredding, climbing, adventuring and stuff. It's pretty obvious that he is into me, which would be fine except that 1. I don't feel the same and 2. I have a super gigantic crush on his friend. Can I flirt with the friend and see what happens, or is that just a terrible idea? Please don't say it's terrible, I really, really like him...
Thank you! You're the best!
A: It’s terrible right now. You can flirt a little to get the idea out there but if the friend starts making moves on you, he’ll either 1. Ask his friend if it’s alright or 2. Decide it’s not worth a friendship or 3. Do whatever he wants. If he does 1 or 2, you could be hurting due to timing. If you ignore friend 1 a little right now (not a lot), then he’ll fade and you can start moving in on the new guy. Then it won’t be quite as close to home.
Let me know what you think.
Love the Madness,
DG
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