Q: I have feelings for a guy from another culture. I know his family traditions are really important to him. I don't know if he is allowed or wants to date people from outside his culture, and his parents may have already arranged a marriage for him (I don't have much evidence to go on here though). Is there a tactful way to find out about his cultural obligations without accidentily offending him? Do I attempt to ask this person out or is it too far fetched (I REALLY like him)?
A: Hmm…
You can do 1 of 2 things.
You can get flirty with him and give signals that say, “Ask me out!” and then wait patiently.
Or you can ask him out and see what happens.
I don’t love asking him about the culture, etc. I don’t know the whole story, but it may seem presumptuous.
If you are already flirty, and it’s not going anywhere, then get bold and ask him out to dinner. Only prob is that he could think it’s a friendly dinner. You need to set the tone so he gets that it’s a date. Also, give him an easy out so he doesn’t have to think of an excuse too quickly if he’s not into it. That’d just be awkward for everyone.
Let me know what you think!
Love the Madness,
DG
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