Q: Hi DG, i'm a long time listener; first time caller. (sorry, i've always wanted to say that...)
I've always heard how awesome you are, so i've decided to try you out. in a completely platonic way of course, please don't arrest me. here we go:
I dated a girl for a while this summer, but all of a sudden she told me that she can't do it anymore because she has no confidence in herself around me and thinks i'm going to drop her for the next interesting girl that walks by. she said she's driving herself crazy dreading each day because maybe that's the day i leave. she really is a very confident person, but she says because i have been to a lot of places and done a lot of stuff (and she says she hasn't) she thinks i wont like her and stay with her. she says i deserve better. she wont believe any of my arguements to the contrary. at first i thought it was just an innovative excuse to drop me because maybe i smell bad or something, but the more i talked to her, the more i believed it was real. any suggestions?
Thanks so much, you're the best - i owe you one. or two. yeah, probably two.
A: The real problem here is that she doesn’t trust you. She doesn’t trust that you’re that into her. She doesn’t trust that you’re not looking at other girls. She doesn’t trust the relationship.
Has she been hurt in the past? Either way, you really need to reassure her. Not with words, but with actions. You should want to see her a lot. You should want to call her a lot. You should miss her during the day when you don’t talk or see her.
You should touch a lot when you’re with her. Play with her hair, rub her back, etc.
Show her how much you really like her.
If she’s confident in you, she’ll be confident in herself.
Love the Madness,
DG
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