Q: Dating Girl..
I've got a crux for you. A few summers ago a buddy of mine had a huge crush on a girl we worked with. That whole summer the hung out quite a bit and he was really unhealthily stuck on her as she wasn't interested in him more than being friends. I think perhaps some drunken kisses happened but nothing more than that. He claims they dated, she says not.
Fast forward to the present, it seems like they are friends and he's admitted that nothing is going to happen. Well recently I ran into her and we went out for a few drinks and hit it off. We've been on a couple of dates and I haven't had a chance to broach the subject with my buddy.
Out of the blue the girl got an e-mail from my buddy, basically saying I'm never going to speak to you again hope you find happiness. As far as I know he doesn't know that she and I have been on a couple of dates, but the timing of the e-mail is really strange as they hadn't talked for a few weeks.
Am I in the wrong here? Should I have talked to him about it before going out with her? I'd like to keep seeing her, get to know her. Did I cross some line in the 'guy code'?
A: You should talk to him. You should definitely let him know if he doesn’t already! Tell him you bumped into her and you’re kinda diggin her and you want to see more of her but don’t want to break any guy code.
He’ll probably pretend it’s fine and either keep talking to you or blow you off for a bit. Either way, if you’re honest, things should smooth out in a couple weeks.
Good luck!! Never easy, huh?!
Love the Madness,
DG
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