Q: Hi, Dating Girl
The weirdest thing happened to me last week. As I answered my cell to an unknown number, I found out about somebody from a long time ago. He had been really thorough to find me. Ok, first time we met was 10years ago, last time we spoke was 7 years ago. I can't say that I forgot about him. I mean the mountain life was in his blood at that time and as far as i could make up from this one call, he remained single. He said he just wanted to meet me again, to talk, to eat (he's a great chef, I remember and a wine maker too). The usual stuff people do, you know. But I am falling for him, again, I think. Only problem now is that I am sort of steady with someone else. I Want to give in to this old feeling, see him again. But I also like the stability of things now. And let this intervention bleed to death. Oh, why am I in such a dilemma?
A: It sucks because you don’t want to have feelings for someone else when you’re in a stable relationship! Stable is good. Stable has longevity. Stable is stable!
Having said all that, the excitement of someone from 7 years ago contacting you is very tempting, intriguing and full of passion. But… is it just that and nothing more?
If it is just the thrill of it all, then politely decline. No good can come of it.
If you’re over/ done/ bored in your stable relationship and questioning it with or without this guy, then maybe this is the push you need to re-think everything.
Very tricky!! Hope this helps and for sure keep me posted!
Love the Madness,
DG
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