Q: Quick background: My ex-gf recently broke up with me. It was a pretty friendly break up, so we're still friends. During the relationship, I treated her a lot better than she did to me (fyi). We go to school in different states now, but we've seen each other three times since. It was fine, but kinda obvious that I would do anything to get back together with her. She has no interest of getting back together. I don't even try to make things work. I just play the friend card, but it's still noticeable difficult for me sometimes.
The situation: Due to the proximity of where I go to school and where her family lives, she invited me over to her house for New Year's (a 3 hour drive). We are sharing a hotel together downtown and going out to some bars that night. Just the two of us. I'll be at her house for two days prior to us going to the hotel on Dec 31. How should I act while I'm there? I'm sure this sounds like an obvious question, but I wanted your pers pective on this.
Thanks
A: That’s a little weird! Sounds like it wasn’t really a clean break... You should just be her friend. Don’t try anything romantic unless she goes there first. If she starts it, still know that she’ll probably go back to friend-mode after NY.
After this trip, try to move on if you know she is.
Love the Madness,
DG
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