Q: A girl from my hometown recently separated from her boyfriend (of a very long time) last week. While we didn't really talk much in high school, we still knew each other, and over the past year or so we've begun to talk a lot more and realized we have a lot in common. I know she used to like me (back in high school) and asks why I never asked her out back then (because she had a boyfriend). We got really close this past summer, and I feel we could have made something of it had she been single (but I could have been misreading things, as I often do). Then we had to go back to school, and gradually lost touch as we became busier and busier, and I hadn't talked to her in about 4 weeks until a few days ago (because of a semester from hell).
Anyway, I really, really like this girl, and want to ask her out, but the timing just seems terrible. I head back for my final semester in a couple weeks, and while I wouldn't mind driving a few hours on the weekend to take her out, it's ju st not the best way to get anything started. Is there a way to let her know I'm interested so she at least keeps me in mind before she runs off with some other guy? I really just don't want to waste the opportunity of her single-ness again, and would like to see something happen before I head back to school.
And all this is assuming she'd be interested in making the transition to being more than friends.
A: Ask her to hang out and just don’t make it so date-like so it seems more like you’re hanging out after a breakup instead of hitting on her after a breakup. If you’re both into each other then it’ll end up being a date anyway and you don’t seem like the bad guy.
Hope that helps!
Love the Madness,
DG
Moosejaw.com
The Dating Girl and all of its related content are meant for entertainment purposes only and do not contain professional or other advice. The views, opinions, points of view and comments expressed by the Dating Girl are not intended to provide professional or other advice and are not those of Moosejaw Mountaineering and Backcountry Travel, Inc.
No comments:
Post a Comment