Q: I've been dating a girl for a little more than 8 months, and I'm not feeling the magic. She's the standard 'perfect girl,' very attached, pretty laid back, and usually pretty fun.
Okay, besides the loss of interest, she whines excessively, especially when it comes to making decisions. I have never been able to handle indecisive people because I don't speak that language.
The twist: I just graduated and will be going to UT and will be rooming with her twin brother. She will also be going and rooming in the same dorm building, so I will see her very often.
The question: How would I be able to end this without a mess with her brother? He's very logical and as long as I don't do something stupid, I'll be alright. Also, is there any way we would be able to still be on talking terms?
A: Best thing to do is be honest and respectful. To string her along would be easier now but bad for the long run with the brother and with her. Be nice. Tell her that the chemistry has just faded and you want to be fair to her and let her know now that it’s not working for you. You want the best for her and knew you needed to talk.
If you’re honest and respectful, she may be mad now but she can’t blame you down the road.
Love the Madness,
DG
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