Q: dating girl- about 2 months ago my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up- for no other reason than we weren't getting along. we were bickering, and just not seeing eye to eye. we both love each other and that is defiantly not an issue. we both left to study abroad and talked frequently- we decided to get back together- i saw him one night, then he had to go home for the summer. my problem is, it just doesn't feel right. i love him so much, but i feel like i am being the desperate girl. i told him that i was buying a ticket to see him, and he said it would work better another time when he wasn't so busy with work, and maybe i am over analyzing it, but it seemed like i was putting him out. i just don't think thats right. even though he just got home- he calls me ALMOST once a day, but i dont always get to talk to him, and if i do, its no longer than 10 min. i dont know if i am just being a psycho girl or if i should say something to him- and if i say something what do i say? i dont w ant to be annoying, but i dont just want to sit back and get hurt. tell me what to do!!!
A: Yes, we can be annoying and analytical and sensitive, but we know when something is wrong. We know when we’re putting out twice the effort he is and we know when we’re chasing. It sucks but you need to talk to him about it. If it’s nothing, then great, you’re the annoying girl. But if he’s not into things anymore then you need to know.
He should be excited for you to plan a trip to see him whether he’s busy or not! I’m on your side on this one.
Let me know what happens. Trust your instincts and hope he proves you wrong and everything is perfect again!
LTM,
DG
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