Q: O.K. I'll try to give the short version. I am interested in this girl, we work together. She recently, a week and a half ago, broke up/moved out with her bf of about two years. He asked her if she wanted to leave using some excuse about age, that is a whole different issue. She called me at 12:30am the night they broke up to talk. She asked me to helf her move, I did. We have worked together for almost three years, and I never asked her out, then she found this guy and I could not asker her out. I have liked this girl for a while and we have done things outside of work together with and without her bf. I did take her to lunch the day we moved her out, and we alway seem to have a good time. I asked her to go to a movie on Saturday and she said sure but did not return my call until too late Saturday night. I asked what she was doing Sunday, "nothing" she said. I called her at 1pm she called me back at 7pm. Am I wasting my time? Should I keep asking? Should I just come out and say "I li ke you" "I think we should date"? Just looking for some insight into a womans head. I tried to keep it short but it did not turn out that way. Thanks...
A: She’s probably not ready to date yet. She’s in recovery stage and may just want a friend. If she wanted to hang out Sat night, she would have definitely called you earlier! Same with Sunday. She’s either not ready or just doesn’t like you like that.
Lay low and just be her friend right now. Give her a couple weeks at least to digest!
Hope that helps.
Love the Madness,
DG
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