Q: I was dating this girl for 4 months. I met her family and went out to dinner with them, and she met mine and things were going well. Then, about a week ago she spent the weekend with her sister up in this mountain town and I barely heard from her which was strange because she always wanted to talk on the phone before she went to bed. Then, the night she got back she called me crying and said that she was sorry but she needed to figure things out for her future and couldn't be 100% in this relationship and that I didn't do anything wrong and I was by far the nicest guy she had ever dated and I treated her really well, she just needed to figure her own things out and the timing wasn't right but she wanted to remain friends. So then the next day I tried to call her and didn't get through and she hasn't called me back and it has been a week. In my opinion, she just stopped liking me for whatever reason but was too afraid to tell me. What are your thoughts on the situation? Why would you say you want to be friends still when it doesn't make sense?

A: She may have met someone else on her trip or she started thinking about someone else. In any case, she doesn't really think you'll be friends, she just wanted to soften the blow. It's like saying "how are you?" - just a nice thing to do. Sorry about it but the fact that she didn't call you back for a week says that she's not really into you as a boyfriend or friend. Sorry to be the messenger.

LTM,
DG

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