Q: Dear Dating Girl,
There is this girl that I met last december, and hands down is the best girl I have ever met as far as compatible and attrativness. We went to college together but didn't know each other then, and now she is in grad school in north carolina about 2 and a half hours away(I'm in Richmond, VA.) When I party with this girl each time ends up being one of the funnest nights of my life, but she has a bf of 4 years, that I know she has, but she has never once mentioned him to me. There have been a couple times while we are drinking and dancing that we kissed a few times. I guess my question is, most women in long term relationships wouldn't be sending me the kind of texts and phone calls that she does if she was serious about her boyfriend. I get texts, saying we should make-out, and she wishes she could just have her way with me; I realize it is probably in a joking manner, but it still gets my interest. I would like to tell her how I feel, but I would rather do it in person and I only see her about once a month. Seeing as her bf lives 40 minutes from where she goes to schoool now, and even though she has been dating him for years, do you think I should keep pursueing her? Most girls I know love talking about their boyfriends, but she has not once mentioned him to me, so I wonder if she is interested or if I am just someone she has fun with.
A: This is bad news. A girl with a bf of 4 years shouldn’t be sex texting/ flirting/ calling another guy. She’s not discussing the guy because she has a crush on you. A little flirting is probably excusable but if I were the boyfriend, I’d say this is definitely crossing the line. You can discuss it with her but the discussion should be whether or not she’s breaking up with the boy, not whether or not y’all should make out!
Sorry to be so mean but when she’s dating you, you wouldn’t want this going on with some other guy.
Hope that helps a little. Love ya!!
LTM,
DG
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